Last Updated on August 31, 2020

Everyone wants bigger, better, and more of everything that includes orgasms. If that’s you then, keep reading as you are about to unveil the secrets to better orgasms.

There’s more to sex than the release of tension. It’s not just a race from start to finish, where all you want is to cum as fast and as hard as you can. 

It is possible to access altered states that leave you deeply energized. You can climb the orgasm ladder to new heights, no matter where you are starting. The path itself is potent, and paying attention along the way can reap huge benefits. 

Most people short-come themselves from experiencing mind-blowing, out-of-this-world, multi-dimensional orgasms. And that’s because they are so set on the destination.

For most, they have a genital sneeze that they call an orgasm. I want to introduce you to the full orgasms buffet where you have an unlimited supply of energy and orgasms.

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Pleasure is about the journey, not the destination.

When you make it all about the journey, you can start to experience new levels of satisfaction. And here is the key: It’s all about surrendering and letting go.

Ancient traditions have been studying sex and intimacy for millennia, and have created systems to help us navigate our orgasmic potential. The lineage of Quodoushka emerged thousands of years ago, from the ancient Mayan and Olmec societies, and offered practical guidance on sex and intimacy. 

They divided orgasms into four levels, and today I am going to share with you some of their wisdom, that I have found in my own sex life. Every bit of this can be embodied in your sex life, just as it has come to be in mine. 


THE FOUR LEVELS OF ORGASM

First level orgasm:

During a level one orgasm, the body feels somewhat satisfied but wants more. However, it feels tired. There is a moderate sense of satisfaction, and it is a genital to genital connection. 

Second level orgasm:

During a level two orgasm, there is a more physical satisfaction and a small gain of energy. The body is glowing, flushed, tingling. There are a brief heart connection and a feeling of fulfillment. 

Third level orgasm:

During a level, three orgasm, emotions, mind, body, and spirit feel connected. There are potent charges, multiple climaxes, and both partners experience a considerable energy gain. 

Fourth level orgasm:

During a level four orgasm, there’s a sense of total fulfillment, and time and any sense of limitation disappear. There’s a buzzing sensation of being connected to all there is, without separation. 

We can experience elements of each of these in any one session of sexual connection. It is not a linear path. Sometimes you will experience one level, and another time it could be a different level. 

However, a lot of people do tend to not make love for long enough to reach higher levels of orgasms.

A second principle here is the longer, and more thoroughly you engage in the moments together, and the more you focus on enjoying and allowing rather than wanting something or making an orgasm happen, the more you build your experience, gather your energy, and grow into the higher levels. 

3 KEYS TO INTENSIFY YOUR ORGASMS

1. Slow Down

The first thing is to not go for the first wave of orgasmic sensations, and you must build up the sexual energy to have stronger feelings. If you go for the first tension release, it will be more of a genital sneeze. Not very satisfying. But if you start to train your body to stay in heightened states of pleasure, then you can begin to experience stronger sensations.

If you aren’t taking the time to build the pleasure, the level of chemicals and hormones released is lower. The satisfaction is less, and the benefit to your body and cells is less.

2. Use Your Breath

Breathing is key to orgasms. Conscious rhythmic breathing makes you come alive. The more you breathe, the more you feel. Coordinating your breath with your partner will create deeper intimacy.

3. Tone Your Pelvic Floor Muscles

You want your muscles to be resilient, just like a trampoline, not too tight, not too loose. The relaxation is as important as the contraction. Combining your breath with the movement is another way to bring more awareness and tonicity to the area.

THERE’S MORE TO ORGASMS

High-level orgasms provide amazing healing energy. You can use that energy to manifest things in your life.

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Take the time to explore uncharted territories and see what the journey can be like. 

Drop the goal and enjoy the ride. When we stop putting pressure on how orgasms need to show up, we can enjoy the magic of this energy and let it run through our entire body. 

Realizing that there’s more to orgasm can allow us to experience deeper connection, consciousness, and bliss in our relationship and life.