5 Tips For Guys With A Big Penis

If you have a big penis, you know that it’s not always all it is cracked up to be.

Do you find it challenging to deal with your penis size?

While you might thoroughly enjoy the size of your member, potential partners might be intimidated.

Are some women afraid or reluctant to have sex with you?

Then those five tips will help you.

Tip #1: Make sure that she is fully engorged before you penetrate her.

By the way, this is a widespread problem. Unfortunately, a lot of guys don’t pay attention to her engorgement. They think that if they are ready, she should be on the same page. But it’s not always the case. Sometimes, she will need extra attention.

But how do you know if she is engorged?

You want to look at her labia; you want to see that she has become swollen, that maybe there’s some wetness and a change of color (think darker than when non-aroused).

Maybe her vagina is pulsing and filled with blood. The bottom line, her pussy has changed in appearance and size before you even penetrate her.

If she isn’t engorged, pulsing and ready, then keep on with foreplay.

You shouldn’t be skipping on it anyway. With an average penis size, you can get away with your woman not being quite so open and lubricated.

But if you’re on the large size, it is not going to work. You need to make sure you take the time.

Tip #2: Use lube.

Lube can be a super helper. Don’t think you only use it if she doesn’t feel wet. Lube is your friend, especially when you have a big penis.

Lubrication is a touchy subject. Frequently we take being juicy for granted and don’t know what to do when things are less lubricated.

Sometimes if a woman feels drier, it can be interpreted as a lack of interest or arousal, which is not always the case. Stress and hormonal changes can affect her juiciness.

There are also incorrect assumptions that lubricants are only for older women and that a younger woman who doesn’t lubricate has a problem.

Sometimes her body takes its sweet time catching up to her turned-on mind, and using lube is a great option.

And adding some lube will make the first penetration much smoother.

That first penetration is a crucial moment for a woman. If she’s not fully relaxed, open, wet, and ready, and especially if you have a thicker head, she will feel that stretch.

And as a woman, I can tell you that this can be quite uncomfortable. And you don’t want to see that expression of pain on her face.

So if you use lube, it will make things much smoother and more comfortable. Make the first entry a pleasurable experience for both of you.

Tip #3: Take it slow.

Don’t just jam your penis in there, slow down. You want to have a very slow and gradual entry – that’s how you enter a woman.

Your lovemaking is not a porn movie; you can’t just jam it in there.

Remember, in porn movies, they have fluffers, they’ve got lube, and they’ve got everything ready to go before they stick it in.

In real life, that’s often not going to be the case. So you need to slow down, do a soft entry.

If she’s got larger labia, you might need to open them, move them out of the way.

And then, when you insert a penis, insert a little bit of the head and pause.

You don’t have to go all-in and deep right away, especially with a bigger penis. Going too deep too soon can be too much.

Pace yourself, know that it’s better to take it slow a little bit at a time until she starts to open up and relax and fully take you in when she is ready.

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Tip #4: Find your positions.

The bad news is that there isn’t one position that will work for all because everyone is shaped differently.

The good news is that some positions feel a little bit easier as a starting point.

But then again, you have to play it by ear with each people’s bodies.

The first position to consider is a spooning position. When you both are on your side, and you can penetrate your woman from behind in that spooning position.

What’s good about that position is that you will feel like you can go in deep without your woman feeling you so deep inside her. There’s a little bit of a buffer with her butt, and she can change the angle until it feels pleasurable to her.

One of the big problems that men talk about is that when they have big penises, they can’t get the two bodies close to each other because the penetration is too deep. This position allows you to contact skin to skin without being that deep.

Another option is a side position where technically you’re on your side, and she’s leaning on her back with her leg scissoring over you.

The side position can also work well for the angle to avoid going too deep.

Another variation would be the missionary but with her legs straight and tighter. Also known as a “tight missionary” gives you a sense that you can penetrate her deeper.

Last but not least is the standing doggy style. I don’t think that this one requires much explanation. Both of you need to be standing, as it can be a proper angle.

These four positions are a great starting place to explore and determine which one is best for you.

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Tip #5: Use a penis depth limiter.

It’s a set of rings that you can put over your penis, to control the depth of the penetration.

You can stack all four of them, or you can use three or two of them. Depending on how aroused your woman becomes, you can adjust during the lovemaking.

You put the rings around your penis against your pubic bone, and it creates a buffer.

It will help you feel like you’re going in entirely without holding back because you don’t want to hurt your woman or touch a place that’s not going to feel good.

It will allow her to enjoy sex without pain, and for you, it will feel like a gentle hug.

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