Last Updated on August 31, 2020

Many men are lost on how to talk to a beautiful woman. Sometimes it can be nerve-wracking to approach a woman who is attractive. Talking to a woman isn’t hard, but your mindset and attitude are keys to your success.

Being a beautiful woman, there are so many things I want to share with men as “do’s and don’ts” when it comes to talking to someone that attracts you. 

First, you’ve got to understand, that being considered “beautiful” by most of society’s standards is a blessing and a curse for a woman. As a beautiful woman, I know we get labeled right away, often as brainless or superficial. We are more likely to be objectified.

I also find that both men and women tend to feel intimidated by someone they consider beautiful. Most men find it hard to be natural and comfortable in conversation, and many women feel threatened as if my beauty by itself is going to interfere with their relationships. When a beautiful woman experiences these reactions around her, she sometimes creates a wall where no one can get in.

So there is a lot to consider in approaching a stunning woman that attracts you. Let your compassion from the understanding above light your way to her heart and mind as you approach her. 

THREE INSIGHTS EVERY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WANTS YOU TO KNOW

1. I am a human being, even though I might appear as a magical creature to you, so treat me as a human.

2. Pedestals are lonely. When you put me way up there, I can’t connect with you.

3. Beauty doesn’t equate with shallow, so don’t bore me with small talk. Bring your wisdom for me to match. 

THREE COMMON MISTAKES

1. First, almost every man says the same thing: You’re so beautiful …
Let me tell you what that does. It enters one ear and goes straight out the other. As charming as you think that compliment is, there’s no originality, and it doesn’t show a genuine appreciation.

2. Asking incessant questions is a real turn off. It makes you appear weak and insecure. A woman wants you to meet her fully, and that doesn’t cut it.

3. Don’t try to impress her to get something from her. Let her impress you instead, without needing her or giving your power away.

HOW TO PAY HER A COMPLIMENT

Offer a compliment with appreciation. It takes mastery and practice to notice the little details, but if you can go beyond the surface and tap into something unique about her, you can hit the jackpot. The main ingredient of a successful compliment is that it’s specific, genuine, and includes something about how it makes you feel.

Poor Compliment: You are SO beautiful! You just blow me away.
Good Compliment: That green scarf looks really good on you. It made me notice the rare bright green in your eyes.

DEVELOP YOUR CONFIDENCE

Confidence comes from within and is the most essential pillar of attraction. The key to your success is to be true to yourself and authentic. She knows if you are putting up a facade, which is always a turnoff. So be at your full potential when you approach someone that impacts you. Prepare. Be calm, grounded, and focus on what makes you feel powerful and alive.

That’s the first step. Then, you will be ready when the moment comes to approach her.

READ THIS: TRAITS YOU MUST DEVELOP TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN

Be casually interested in the woman, in a friendly manner, without needing anything. Ask her real questions and let her talk. That way, you will find if you have a common ground. Show genuine curiosity, find out if you have something in common other than just the physical attraction. Sometimes you will, and sometimes you won’t. Be open.

Drop the idea of having something perfect to say, and make her laugh. In reality, it’s more about how you say something than what you say. So speak with genuine curiosity, and without an agenda more than getting to know her. 

FOUR STEPS TO MAKING THE BEST IMPRESSION

  1. Make eye contact, but don’t stare her down.
  2. Ask open questions and be curious, without stalking.
  3. Give her your full attention, but stay in your power.
  4. Pay her a meaningful, sincere compliment.

Always approach a beautiful woman with the intent to make a genuine connection, and remember, don’t be attached to how she responds to you. Your success is making contact. You will never know if you are a match if you don’t give it a try.