Last Updated on August 21, 2020

Does it feel like you fell out love recently? Maybe the joys of falling in love, are a distant memory for you. You might not even remember what attracted you to your partner in the first place. Or maybe you still remember, but can’t quite muster the energy to bring that love front and center.

Let me be clear here; you don’t just fall out of love by accident. Falling leaves clues, and if you aren’t paying attention, well it catches up with you.

Love is not just a feeling. It’s action and intention combined.

How many times in our love life do we forget to love? We focus our energy on things that don’t truly matter. We criticize our partner, focus on “their flaws,” or worse stop paying attention to them altogether.

We tend to take the people we love the most for granted. And because of the way we are wired, we forget what we once knew to be true. Like how much we care or enjoy our partners.

When we get stuck in this downward spiral of love, it becomes tough to find our way back.
If our stress levels are high, then it’s one more thing to do on our list, and it isn’t so appealing.

But what if we did things differently?

Cultivate the Love Daily

What if, instead of accepting the common belief that it is normal for relationships to become stale and dry, we consciously applied ourselves to make small daily acts of kindness to cultivate love.

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Just like we tend to our plants and our homes, we must continuously feed our relationship with love and attention for them to thrive.

And if we are continually putting energy and focus on appreciating what we have and the ones we love in our lives, then we don’t forget. If we don’t forget, then we don’t have to find our way back and take a spin downward, we keep rising in love.

It’s the small and sometimes insignificant moments that count and matter the most. Don’t get me wrong, grand gestures are fantastic, but I would rather have a hundred small acts of love over a single big one.

8 Ways To Rising In Love

1. Appreciate each other daily.

2. Look for the good always.

3. Be affectionate.

4. Give attention to one another.

5. Listen to your partner.

6. Be kind.

7. Always assume they are doing their best.

8. Ask for what you need.

Falling Back In Love

I dare you over the next few weeks to share with your partner three things you appreciate about them daily.

Make it a game; be creative. When driving in the car, instead of listening to the radio or partaking in small talk, share with yourselves things you love about each other.

That is one of my favorite practice of all time!

I don’t just wait for my husband to share the things he loves about me. I am pro-active and ask him whenever I feel like it to share three things he loves about me. I make sure to take it all in and savor the gift. Then, when he is done, I too share things I love and appreciate about him.

This has been a game-changer when it comes to the art of remembering the love we feel for one another, and it creates such a beautiful vibrational field for ourselves and others to bask in.

So, now it’s your turn, make love your daily practice and watch your heart and relationship bloom.