How To Give A Good Blow Job – 6 Expert Blow Job Tips And Techniques

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Blow jobs are awesome, but if you don’t know how to give a good blowjob, they can sometimes feel a bit nerve-wracking and intimidating.

You may be totally into being on the giving end of oral sex, or it may be a service you reluctantly offer your boyfriend or husband, and only every now and then, because the only part of the word that resonates with you is “job.”

No matter where you are on the spectrum, adding new techniques and refining your skills can be fun. Let’s take your expertise and enjoyment to the next level.

Because, let’s be honest, most guys LOVE blow jobs. So if you can enjoy them too, then one of his dreams will come true and he will forever be grateful to you for that.

But no matter where you fall on the fellatio appreciation spectrum, adding the best new blowjob tips and techniques to the mix in order to refine your oral sex skills on a regular basis can be fun — for both of you.

1.Love it.

If you don’t, he will feel it. A pity blow job is never as satisfying as one where you don’t seem to get enough of him. Everyone loves to be wanted and when you crave his cock, it adds to his experience.

I know it can be hard at times to really dig it. I mean there’s hair in the way and sometimes even the smell can be repulsive. But most of that can be corrected with proper hygiene and a good diet.

Shower together and make sure you take charge of the soaping so you get it done the way you want. Have an honest heart-to-heart talk with him about what’s truly holding you back when it comes to fellatio. If he is smart, he will take good notes and do what it takes to meet your criteria.

Don’t criticize him, just share with him your preferences when it comes to pubic hairstyle and hygiene. Offer suggestions and make sure to share your excitement about what that would do for you. I am sure he would be more than willing to spend a few extra minutes a day of grooming for more blow jobs.

All right, so now we have removed the first barrier. Let’s look at what to do and one of the keys to a satisfying blow job.

2. Make It Wet.

Saliva, saliva, saliva. I can’t say it enough. Make it wet and slippery. I don’t care what you have to do, think of a lemon, drink water, use flavored lube, you must have lubrication.

Don’t be afraid of being slobbery.

3. Change It Up.

Vary speed, strokes, direction, and depth. The up and down motion can get tiring for your neck pretty fast. So, instead of moving your head, use your tongue to circle around his shaft.

Alternating between circling and sucking motions. Put his cock underneath your tongue so that it varies sensations.

Go for long licks from base to tip. Alternate with kisses up and down the shaft.

If you are not that into deep throating because it makes you gag (flash news here, everybody gags with deep throating so don’t feel bad), then use the roof of your mouth and the sides to create the illusion of reaching deep and far.

Just because it’s called oral sex doesn’t mean your mouth is the only part that needs to do the work here.

4. Add Your Hands.

Bring your hands into the equation whenever your mouth gets a little tired. Let your hands take over the work while you gently suck.

You can simply make a ring with your index finger and thumb and go up and down the shaft. Another option is to use more of a full hand and squeeze him at the base while sucking the tip. You can also try a juicing motion with your hand on the head of the penis while sucking or licking his balls.

You can reach up with your hands and caress his chest or gently pinch his nipples. Add deep pressure on his perineum – the skin between his anus and genitals.

It’s great to use both hands and mouth, as it adds to his sensation and is more fun for you.

5. Surprise Him.

Include the balls, they rarely get enough attention and can really add to his pleasure. You can stretch them, tickle them or massage them.

Slow things down, it doesn’t have to be the same fast speed here. Make it that he doesn’t know what’s coming next.

Talk dirty to him, incorporate toys or prostate stimulation.

Make sounds while having his penis inside your mouth. The vibration will add to his enjoyment.

6. Ask Feed Back.

Ask him what he likes. Have him tell you when a move scores high on his pleasure scale and do it often. You really don’t need to know that many moves. Have 3-5 go-to’s and rotate between them.

Plus when you get validation that he likes what you are doing, it will boost your confidence.

Believe in your skills and yourself… you’ve got this.

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You don’t have to swallow every time you give him a blow job. There are no rules that say you must blow him until he comes. You can choose when you are done and leave him hanging for more. Your body, your choice.

Bring him close to orgasm and stop before his point of no return. This will train him to stay in a heightened state of pleasure for a longer period of time.

A side effect from that technique is that he will be able to last longer when he is inside you. So you get better sex – a win-win if you ask me.

Blow jobs can be extremely liberating, you are in charge of his pleasure. I know some consider blow jobs degrading but I say they are empowering.

Always make sure you are comfortable. You don’t have to be on your knees. Have him lay down and position yourself on his side or between his legs. Find what works for you.

Remember, it is your show.

Feel inspired and get ready to blow his mind.