Sexual Qigong And Increasing Your Sexual Energy

Kevin Anthony 0:11
Welcome to the love lab podcast a safe place to get real about sex. Whether you’re a man or woman, single or couple, this is the show for you. We are your hosts,

Céline Remy 0:20
Kevin Anthony and Celine Remy. And we are here to guide you to go from good to amazing in the bedroom and beyond.

Kevin Anthony 0:27
Alright, welcome back to the love lab podcast. This is Episode 144. And it’s titled sexual Chee Gong and increasing your sexual energy. So on today’s show, we’ve got some Chee Gong experts. And they have a really fascinating story, I’m not going to get into it yet, because I’m gonna let them tell the story. But they had some pretty challenging times.

Kevin Anthony 0:50
And they used to Qigong and some other natural things to get past those. And from that, they’ve really learned some interesting things about their sex life, which is what we are most concerned about on this show. So I think this will be really interesting because really what it’s getting into is sexual energy, the movement of sexual energy, how that can influence not only your sex but your life in your physical body as well.

Kevin Anthony 1:18
And it’s something we talk about a lot on this show sexual energy and how to move it. So I think it’s going to be really fascinating having some people who are really experts in moving that energy through your body,

Céline Remy 1:28
and how you’re not separated, how it’s all connected, so stay tuned, because there’s gonna be a lot of gems in today’s show. But before we get started, let’s give a big shout-out to our sponsor’s power and mastery. So if you want to join the secret club of men who are great in bed, then check out power and mastery at power and mastery.com. It is the most complete sexual mastery training for men.

Céline Remy 1:51
Whether you want to have harder erections last longer in the bedroom or increase your sexual skills. There is something for you at power and mastery.com. So go check it out. Our guests today are Yeti, Yeti element, and Joi Abraham, and they are the founders of Charlotte reflexology, where they provide alternative therapy influenced by ancient Eastern medicine and modern science.

Céline Remy 2:15
They are partners in life and business. Yet he was diagnosed with a potentially fatal disease at 24. And learn how to heal himself without surgery, drugs, and a cocktail of herbs. His philosophy is simple, do what works and do it often. It’s kind of like sex to what works and does it often. So welcome, Yadi and Joi to the love lab podcast.

Joi Abraham 2:42
Hi,

Yadi Alamin 2:42
thank you. Thank you.

Céline Remy 2:45
So Yadi, you were, we’ll start with you, we’ll put you in the spotlight first, and then we’ll get to you Joi as well. But yeah, you were terminally ill, as we shared in the little description here.

Céline Remy 2:56
So tell us more about your journey because you went from being kind of nearly dead to really like a thriving human being again, and I know you went from the allopathic road to the acupuncture road. So give our listeners a little bit of an understanding about that journey you went on.

Yadi Alamin 3:15
Okay. Um, so, um, I’ll be 46 probably by the time people see this, that my birthday is within what, three weeks? Today, about 21 years ago, after working in pharmacy and working as a phlebotomist, you know, as a vampire, drawing people’s blood working in the hospital system. I got very sick, and I was in the ER about six days out of 10. with, you know, like the expectation that I was gonna die like my heart started racing, I couldn’t breathe.

Yadi Alamin 3:53
And, you know, the first time I went, I call the ambulance and the other times that I drove in, every time I was told, I had anxiety, I was given Xanax, I had never taken medicine, and I really never been sick. So after the sixth visit, they referred me to somebody else, GP, gastroenterologist specialists here. And they determined I had some condition called idiopathic autoimmune hepatitis, which in English means nothing. idiopathic, I think is you and I autoimmune that was a good guess.

Yadi Alamin 4:33
And then hepatitis because my liver was inflamed, had patto and itis. But me being 24 years old, and basically a knucklehead I didn’t understand or know to argue with them. And over the next six months, I went from 155 pounds to 116 pounds. There’s a picture of me on the wall, inspired by Jordan Reubens patient who healed myself where I was. I was emaciated. I was skin and bones My eyes looked like I’m scared to die because I was.

Yadi Alamin 5:04
And at that point, I was suicidal. I called my mother who was here in Charlotte, I was in Chicago. And I said, Mom, I want to die. And she says, well go to the acupuncturist, which she was last minute, just trying to keep me from killing myself. So I found the guy in a book had on the Chinese uniform, which I now know the right name of, but at the time, I knew nothing. And I figured this would be great because he could just in the neck and I die.

Yadi Alamin 5:36
And you know, that it would be like a kung fu movie, like, you know, you dishonored me. Wow. And then, of course, that didn’t happen. He looked at my tongue and my pulse, and he told me, You liver, spleen, kidney, put me on the table. This is Chicago winter. So it was like 20 degrees outside on the high. He’s putting his hands on a radiator, and he’s touching my body. And for the first time getting off the table, in a year, I could breathe and didn’t feel like I was going to implode. So I went for eight months paid out of pocket.

Yadi Alamin 6:13
And if you’re sick, you don’t have money, music can’t really work. After eight months, I beg to be a student, which that was the beginning of Qigong as I learned zones on or standing. And after that, learned all the little pieces, they ate piece brocade, ping, try to pay down all the basics of Qigong to save my life. And for the next seven years, I was his student and apprentice working in Chinatown for $10 an hour. But I healed I’m here. I survived. And it worked. So that’s it?

Céline Remy 6:50
Did you learn Chinese in the process? The language? Yeah,

Yadi Alamin 6:54
absolutely not.

Céline Remy 6:57
I was ready to be blown away. They’re like, wow if he picked up Chinese in that process, it’d be really amazing. Now, it’s still an amazing story. So

Kevin Anthony 7:05
I have an interesting follow-up question. So when you went to the acupuncturist, did you have an expectation that he would be able to heal you? Were you like, Oh, yeah, this is gonna be great or?

Yadi Alamin 7:18
Good question. I had tried other things, obviously, like, go on the internet back then it was Yahoo. And I tried yoga, which is cool. stretching routine. didn’t make me well. I tried every herb you could try. And I just really didn’t care. And if you’re suicidal, you have no expectations. You know, I didn’t expect him to heal me. Absolutely not.

Yadi Alamin 7:42
And the fact that here’s what stands out, and I know we’re going to talk about love, and we’re going to talk about affection, but I never liked anybody. I hated people literally hated people. And for this man to save my life. Not being overly flowery and nice, but to save my life out of human kindness. That’s what changed things. So I had no expectation, and that’s when the miracle happened. See,

Kevin Anthony 8:14
I find I find that fascinating. Amazing. The reason I asked that question is that you know, we know of the placebo effect and we know that that is a real thing. So if you had gone in with this expectation that this crazy wizard you know, Chinese medicine guy’s gonna heal me we could maybe say that that was part of it. But because you didn’t have that expectation, we cannot we can pretty safely say that that’s not what was going on that something genuinely happened there with that medicine, Chinese medicine Qigong that he was doing.

Yadi Alamin 8:47
Absolutely, to convince me otherwise would be impossible, but to convince me that it was going to work also, you couldn’t tell me anything I’d like if I don’t like you. I wouldn’t believe you anyway. So yeah, I had no it’s not placebo, it’s kind of like trial by fire. The thing is, like in the old days of China, is that going ahead? If what you do doesn’t work you got your head cut off like so there’s no placebo in the ancient world like it’s gonna work or it’s not.

Céline Remy 9:20
And back then they used to have the acupuncturist you would pay him to stay well, and if he got sick, he would stop paying him. So he had this like, drive and he hadn’t been said incentive to actually make sure that you were healthy, exact,

Kevin Anthony 9:34
shocking. What a crazy idea.

Yadi Alamin 9:39
that’s a quote from the non gene. Actually,, I don’t want to try to be pretentious. It’s in chapter 60 or 70. Something in the book of questions, where it says the inferior physician treats diseases that are manifest and the excellent physician treats things before they happen.

Céline Remy 10:00
Wow, I love that. So for our listeners, at some point, I want to come back to what is qigong? What is acupuncture? I’m assuming most people know, but some people don’t. But maybe before we get into that, why don’t you Joi give us a little bit to have a little overview of your own self-healing story.

Céline Remy 10:08
Because I know you had something too. Pretty amazing that happened. And then we can like, explain all of the details to our listeners.

Joi Abraham 10:31
Sure. And it’s interesting because my healing journey does involve him. And what I did not realize was that my healing would involve my life partner when I met him at the time. So I was a very active, very young, active woman, I was a professional dancer. And I was also a flight attendant. So I was going all over the place, doing no-shows and go into different cities, and you know, having a great time. And soon afterward, I was having trouble walking.

Joi Abraham 11:04
So for a dancer, to not be able to do something simple as walking is very debilitating, very devastating. And soon I had to stop with my career because I was really having some troubles. And I knew that I needed to fix it. But I wasn’t sure exactly what to do to do that too, you know, to fix that problem. So I made a decision that I was going to find out how I needed to fix this problem. But I was going to do it in a natural way.

Joi Abraham 11:34
Because I had already done lots of over-the-counter medications, pain relievers, and they weren’t working. And I did not want to go the normal Western medical route because I could see that that wasn’t going to be aligned with my beliefs. And I wanted to do something different. So I made a decision. And I walked into a health food store. And I saw him. He says, How can I help you? I said, Do you have Chinese bitters? And he looked at me kind of strange. And I’m wondering why he’s looking at me.

Yadi Alamin 12:09
I worked there. I wasn’t just hanging there.

Joi Abraham 12:19
any other way. But I asked him, you know, the Chinese visitors, they looked at me strangely, he said, No, what do you need them for? So I told him about what was happening with my body and the pain that I was having from, you know, the injury and not being able to walk. And he suggested a mushroom that I took and another time of my life in another country that helped with previous health issues.

Joi Abraham 12:41
And I was surprised that somebody like him knew about that mushroom. And so I thought, wow. So we talked for a long time, I think about an hour in the store. So much so that people looked at us and said, You know what, what are you guys doing? This guy’s working here, I need help. I need help, too.

Joi Abraham 13:03
So he said, Why don’t you come to my Qigong class, and I thought, that’d be a great idea. I’d love to come. And I didn’t go that day that he invited me I came the next week. We made a connection in the class. And we went out on a date. on that date, I couldn’t walk, I had a hip flare. I was trying to hide it. It was very hard to do because this is a guy who knows very much about body mechanics.

Joi Abraham 13:34
And he could already tell that I was having a very hard time walking, so what’s wrong with you? So I told him, and he said, Okay, let’s do this. 20 minute cheap on the set. It’s a summer night, here in North Carolina in the summer night. It’s still hot and muggy. But we’re outside in the park and he said, let’s just go ahead and do it. It’s okay. And for the next 20 minutes, it was hot. I was sweating. arms were hurting. I was cursing internally.

Joi Abraham 14:04
Why do I have to do this? I hate this. Oh my gosh, this is terrible. Guy, why is he making me do this. I survived the 20 minutes. When that 20 minute was over. I went to go walk and I was expecting it to be painful. There was 00 pain, zero pain. And I thought This can’t be true. And I went and I ran up the hill. I walked down the hill I turned around in circles, no pain, and it stayed like that for three whole days.

Joi Abraham 14:37
I didn’t need a pain reliever. I didn’t have to get a massage anything. So I was at that point, convinced that I needed to add Qigong into my regular movement every day. And I never stopped doing Qigong from that day.

Céline Remy 14:51
Amazing. So let’s get into what the heck is qigong for the people who are like they were pronouncing this weird name and they’ve never done it and I can totally relate by By the way, too, when I did some tea Kong and sometimes in my life, it’s painful, you hold some position, and sometimes it’s boring. So your mind gets like, wants to be like, hey, let’s move more like why do I have to hug the tree?

Céline Remy 15:12
Or like, do whatever you know, it’s like, it’s like, it’s such a mind game that you go through. But if you can go through it, there’s like beauty. So why not? What is ci cog? And why would one try it in case you’re not yet convinced that it should be good for you?

Yadi Alamin 15:29
Okay, so she was gone. It, it’s kind of a generic name. It just means like, breath technique, or, you know, breath skill. If you translate it literally. It can be fast, it can be slow. A lot of people think of Tai Chi first. They think of Qigong, I always think of Qigong as structure.

Yadi Alamin 15:53
Moving posture. If it’s it’s the fundamental, basic human skills required for all activities, but it’s refined in a scientific way. If I had a shorter definition, I wish I but it’s how to be a healthier human, how to be a more balanced emotional vessel, and how to integrate both the thinking, the doing the feeling, and the not knowing curiosity. It’s, it’s that

Joi Abraham 16:31
I like it when you call it moving acupuncture. Yeah.

Céline Remy 16:35
So and it’s something that you do with your clothes on, that’s something that you do. Moving mostly standing from my understanding on this, there are other forms that I don’t know about, like just for people to kind of like have that, that full vision of it. Okay.

Yadi Alamin 17:01
So the standing is one kind of Qigong, the Tai Chi the Bhagwat Gita, the Lu Hey, by Father the, you know, tongue by all of the martial arts, those. Qigong, in essence, the iron body, the strengthening, that’s ci Gong making, as you know, very well is, is a mind-body activity, any somatic thing that you do from walking to standing to breathing, to not walking to sitting to sleeping becomes Qigong. Qigong is just applying your full attention and awareness internally to your activity and being able to refer, you know, to refine what you’re doing.

Kevin Anthony 17:32
Okay, so see,

Céline Remy 17:33
this is perfect, I can see.

Kevin Anthony 17:35
It’s a great segue, first of all, by the way, so they should not assume that you have to do it with your clothes on because I think you can do it with your clothes off just fine.

Yadi Alamin 17:47
Wake up and train. In fact, yeah. In fact, you can sleep doing Qigong, this while mountain harmony, sleep Qigong. Qigong for everything, there’s a dream gee Gong could be through being able to program your dreams.

Kevin Anthony 18:08
So lets since we are the love lab, podcast, sex, love, and relationship, let’s talk a little bit about so you both discovered Qigong through your own path, right? So we’ve kind of established how you got there, the health challenges you have how you discovered qigong, the amazing effects that it had on your body.

Kevin Anthony 18:26
And we also want to kind of get into, okay, so what did you learn about your sexuality and your sexual energy and how you relate to others? Like there’s been a bunch of keywords that you’ve already kind of dropped in there. And I want to see if maybe we can touch on some of those.

Yadi Alamin 18:46
Yeah, go ahead.

Joi Abraham 18:48
You know, I always thought that as a dancer, I already knew a whole lot about my body. But she Gong was a lot different way of moving. So I learned that a lot of the time, I was doing a lot of forceful things, and trying to make my body I say, form around that, you know, I wanted my body to do certain things. And I would do what I needed to do in order for that to happen.

Joi Abraham 19:15
But my body was trying to tell me that it needed some help that there was an injury that there was too much energy being put out, but the activities that I was asking her to do. So when I first started she doesn’t think because I’m used to moving all the time. So doing standing exercises, for me was my challenge. But it gave me the opportunity to start listening and to see what my body actually

Yadi Alamin 19:43
like sexually. They’re trying to

Joi Abraham 19:46
Yeah, no

Céline Remy 19:49
this is foreplay Yadi, hold on.

Yadi Alamin 19:59
You know, So if being Midwestern and being like being from where I’m from and having that there’s not a strong esoteric presence in the Midwest, I mean, it’s put up or shut up where I grew up. And so when somebody would call me out on she going, like, what is it does it work, I would say, Get get over here, let’s show you. I’ll show you want to know what she Gong is, when it came down to sexual Qigong, I had no sexual energy.

Yadi Alamin 20:25
When I was sick, I was completely had no sexual drive, nothing. And I learned probably from 18 different people, like the shizue gene in a few of the other things that were supposed to strengthen the gene strengthen the sex drive and libido. So if I was trying to tell somebody, Hey, no, this works for sex, too, what I’m not giving you the same offering, like get it here.

Yadi Alamin 20:50
Now. Let me show you what this gene is about. So, but the thing is, most men, and this is just me talking about what I know, most men have a skewed relationship with sex where it’s more about, okay, I’m supposed to be, you know, vital, I’m supposed to be like, I have to do a good job here.

Yadi Alamin 21:17
And it’s such a psychological, psychological like black with men that, like, men will go for years unsatisfied with sex. Because they think their job is to do a good job. And just to like, I’m getting, I’m gonna go in there, and I’m gonna throw down, like, I’m gonna throw down, she’s gonna, like, she’s gonna go crazy. I’ll just sit back after the, you know, the deed is done. And I’ll pound on my chest. She’ll be my little long. You know,

Joi Abraham 21:47
it’s interesting that you say that, because most of the time, it’s the women who are unsatisfied for several years, women have,

Yadi Alamin 21:55
yeah, women have a different reason for being unsatisfied. In my opinion, I’m not a woman, but from what I hear from women, women will say, Well, you know, he, he didn’t, I was never involved. He didn’t know what I liked. He, I was kind of just there for him. And it ends up where it’s so psychological.

Yadi Alamin 22:14
This is what I mean, it’s a psychological thing, where like, I feel like I have to do a good job. And as long as she’s convinced that I tried, then she knows I care. Right? And that’s, that’s honestly, that’s what regular sex is, like,

Kevin Anthony 22:29
but you’re throwing down may not be her idea of a good throwing down.

Yadi Alamin 22:34
Right? Right. Sometimes it might be, that might be what she likes, but a lot of times, no, you know, you.

Joi Abraham 22:42
And a lot of times, we don’t say anything, and we don’t really connect to what it is that we need and how to say it. Sometimes we’re not connected to our own body enough to make sure that we know what it is that we need. And to say it.

Joi Abraham 22:56
Yeah, you know, training, that kind of Qigong training gives you have the confidence to understand what your body is like, and also the confidence to communicate so that you can tell your partner what it is that you need from them. And vice versa. I could just look at somebody now and just be like, Oh, your sex is terrible.

Joi Abraham 23:16
We don’t tell people that though.

Kevin Anthony 23:18
You can tell us off the air.

Yadi Alamin 23:25
And you can tell who has secrets? Like it’s um, that’s true places in it’s funny because everything physical is mental is emotion, everything is everything, right? We just look at somebody, and just from the way they speak, the way they move, you can tell what kind of person or what kind of relationship they have with sex.

Yadi Alamin 23:48
And it sounds kind of robotic, the way I’m saying it was just how I sound but the Yeah, the truth is, I can look at a man and I can see, okay, his understanding of sexes is basically that, like, I’m gonna go in there, I’m you know.

Kevin Anthony 24:06
So you want to just kind of reiterate a few things because you said them, but I want to make sure the audience understands them is that there are certain things that je Gong teaches you that translate directly into your sex life in the bedroom, and I’ll start you off with one, which is, it gets you into your body, right. So one of the things you’re talking about is how much guys get in their head about how they got to do a good job and put on a performance.

Kevin Anthony 24:32
Whereas qigong can get you more into your body. There is definitely the fact that it can teach you how to move the energy. There’s the fact that it can teach you how to be more present and connect and I would just maybe if you could expand on some of the positive things that qigong can teach people and how that can really translate into their relationship and into their sex life.

Yadi Alamin 24:58
For men For a woman you if I can do it when I have an orgasm, I can choose when I have an ejaculation I can choose if I want them to go together. And most people can’t.

Joi Abraham 25:14
You can personally,

Yadi Alamin 25:15
yeah, I can choose if I want this to be ejaculatory sex or no. That’s, it was it’s not new anymore. I was like, Oh my god,

Kevin Anthony 25:28
it’s because you’ve learned how to move the energy and how to control the energy, right?

Yadi Alamin 25:34
Either by force or by, you know, the hard way. And the easy way to do it the hard way it was by any means necessary, then I’ll keep going. But it’s still back to that I have to do a good job. I have to you know, I

Joi Abraham 25:48
have to keep going. I don’t want to finish early. But it was interesting. When we first met, I knew that he was doing this program, but we didn’t talk about it. For several months, he didn’t tell me that he knew how to control that aspect. And he finally told me, and, you know, he was waiting for my reaction. I already knew, and so I told him, as I already knew that this is something that you could do that.

Joi Abraham 26:15
So I don’t find it strange, because I have actually, what I found interesting was that I knew someone in the flesh, who could actually do that I had heard about this concept. I think it was the Tao of sexology by Steven Chen. Yeah. And yeah, and I had read that some time ago. But I put it away because I thought that those things that he was talking about were not even reachable.

Joi Abraham 26:38
Wasn’t even something that you could actually do in the physical. So I thought, okay, yeah, I never find somebody who could do that. And then finally I do and I go, okay. Oh, yes. Yeah, this is the beginning of a new journey with that. So it was very, very interesting that he didn’t share that right away. And I thought that was just, you know,

Yadi Alamin 27:04
if you say it right away, it’s kind of corny.

Kevin Anthony 27:08
Nice to meet you. By the way, I can control my ejaculation.

Yadi Alamin 27:16
Yeah, I have students who do that is they’ll meet ladies and say, Well, you know, I’m, I made I’m recycling.

Céline Remy 27:24
Recycling your plastic.

Kevin Anthony 27:28
For guys, not a good pickup line justice.

Céline Remy 27:32
All right, so welcome.

Céline Remy 27:38
Welcome back more to that. But let’s do a little break for anyone who is listening and is a couple and needs some help. If you are a committed couple who is stuck in a rut and just going through the daily motions, instead of connected, connecting the way you used to. And you tired of stale mechanical sex, I’d like spontaneity and fun and you don’t want to live a life of average.

Céline Remy 28:00
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Céline Remy 28:33
so we know that you know how to separate your ejaculation and orgasm. And I think most of our listeners if they’ve been with us for a while, ‘ve heard that concept because we talk about this a lot. These are things that we teach our clients and people who work with us.

Céline Remy 28:49
So I think the first step is having that awareness that knowing that they can be separated, they’re not the same thing and that your sex life can look so radically different once you are able to do that. So I’m curious a little bit about like my mind goes into you can do all these cool things, whatever tricks can you do? What does your sex life look like, you know,

Kevin Anthony 29:13
Don’t hold back the detail.

Joi Abraham 29:16
We did all of the tricks and the fun stuff early. And we had a lot of fun doing that. And it was great. But then we got to the point where we didn’t feel like we had to impress each other with that all the time. And our sex life became more of a bonding experience and less of a show. Because a lot of times, that means that you’re not present if you’re trying to impress someone, you know, having bonding time I like to call it is very essential.

Joi Abraham 29:52
And sometimes you have to put your ego aside and you know, say I don’t necessarily need to try to impress this person at this time. I probably need to feel what they’re feeling, see how they’re doing. And sometimes sex is a different kind of communication.

Yadi Alamin 30:12
Like, okay, so we’re in the clinic, I, we work like six days a week in the clinic. Yeah. And honestly, it’s a lot of physical labor. And yeah, I mean, I do, if I’m being honest, like, if we, if we made it a priority and said, Hey, you know, we’re gonna be sexual, it’s almost like that it becomes natural like we’re gonna be, it’s just something that, um, it’s a, I don’t know how to describe like, the clinic is almost taking more energy then having that that

Joi Abraham 30:51
we have to make, we have to consciously make a couple of times, because a lot of times clinic will take over with the day to day operations. And what happens is, you tend to put things off, couple-wise. And if you do that things suffer. So I always say, because we’re in business together as well. I always say that if we have a good relationship, we’ll also have a good business.

Unknown Speaker 31:13
Yeah. The thing is, like, it, I don’t know how to explain, like, I see people every day and a lot, sometimes it’s like, they just have a headache, or, you know, they just have like a rotator cuff injury or something like that. And then I see people that are nearly dead. And stage four cancer or, you know, the, you know, like dysbiosis, or something like that, where are they have C diff for their death, you know, right in front of me.

Yadi Alamin 31:41
And the energy that you use to express things sexually is the same energy that you’ll use to help people. It’s creative energy. I said earlier in this podcast that I hated people. And I didn’t say it as a joke, like, I wouldn’t be a kind person if I hadn’t gotten sick.

Yadi Alamin 32:03
The same kind of energy that it takes to show love to your partner, is required in a different way to show compassion and help nourish people. So I’ve almost taken some of the sexual training and sort of transmuted it for the time being into the clinic. That’s an honest answer. Like, yeah, I mean, it doesn’t sound exciting from like, the sex and love lens, but it’s just That’s true.

Kevin Anthony 32:30
Yeah, but what it does is and this is something we talk about all the time on the show is that, you know, many different cultures have different words for you know, what we would say sexual energy, he would call it sexual energy, or G or gene or prana. Are they now these different words to mean lifeforce energy. And so I think it’s really good for the listeners to hear it again from somebody other than just us, that it’s all the same.

Kevin Anthony 32:55
And that’s kind of the point. And when we’re doing this whole episode here on sexual Qi Gong and increasing your energy, what we really want people to understand is that it’s all the same creative, lifeforce energy, and you can harness that and you can channel that into whatever you want to do. So you can put that into your clinic, you can put that into lovemaking. And it doesn’t really matter what you do with it. As long as you cultivate it, you move it and you channel it, you use it for something.

Yadi Alamin 33:23
It’s, it’s great, it’s a good point. Because if, at the time when I was making music when she was dancing, that kind of energy went to other things. But I tell people this I could be the wrong yield to somebody, I could be whatever and you know, she could be Juliet to me. That has taken a backseat to really helping people survive, and especially during a pandemic if I’m being honest. It is the same for us.

Yadi Alamin 33:51
Like you say, it is that life for us that, and sometimes it’s just having a little spark of playfulness, or whatever it is that makes somebody feel better. Now, you know, you’re trying to connect to people, whether it’s through lovemaking or whether it’s in a clinic or whether it’s through writing a song or building a house, whatever it is. It’s what Bond’s us together. It’s recognizing the unification in our lives, you know, clinicians,

Céline Remy 34:24
so what can our listeners do right now to increase their sexual energy? So you might have Is there a particular practice or a first exercise that you can walk them through something you know, something short and easy to start with?

Yadi Alamin 34:40
300 wall squats if you’ve broken down if you’re a guy you’ve broken down start learn wall squats. Look up g Zhang Xiao Hai NG Zenon Chee Gong masterplan Ming, I have programs y’all have programs, but if you want the first thing, that gets you out of the gate right now today, learn how to do a full-body squat as people do in China when they use the bathroom, like learn how to do a full squat, because you’re going to open that foramen magnum.

Yadi Alamin 35:11
which is that space in the pelvic girdle, where all of your reproductive genes will flow through, you’re going to open up the choma, you’re gonna open up the central vessel, you’ll open up the four glands in the head, you basically open up the entire microcosmic orbit in a single motion, just from learning how to do a proper squat, inhale on the way down, exhale on the way up, use the doorframe if

Joi Abraham 35:34
you have if you’re not strong enough to do it alone, use the doorframe it’ll help keep the posture correct. And you won’t get as tired as easily.

Yadi Alamin 35:42
And if you want a great-looking butt, do squats.

Kevin Anthony 35:50
And what lady doesn’t want a great looking but

Céline Remy 35:52
this is why we do like 75 every day.

Joi Abraham 35:58
Ladies, too, I really wish that someone had done squats. And they had an easier time with childbirth.

Yadi Alamin 36:04
Yeah, my ex-wife, I give her like

Joi Abraham 36:07
I wanted him to say

Yadi Alamin 36:11
My ex-wife and if she listening, hi. Yes, she gave birth in under an hour. She was doing 100 squats a day and gave birth in the squatting position.

Céline Remy 36:23
That’s how you should do it. Like, it’s totally wrong that we actually lay down on our backs and give birth like this naturally, we are meant to squat. If you look in many cultures, I mean, when they work in the rice fields, and they just they will squat and give birth to any indigenous cultures. That’s how it happens. Anyway, this is not the purpose of this episode. I’m getting all fired up about this.

Kevin Anthony 36:47
To help deliver babies.

Yadi Alamin 36:51
Babies happy Yeah.

Céline Remy 36:54
Is there any is there? Is it different for men and women in terms of like practices and cultivation for in your opinion? Like do you think that? Is there? Is there a difference there, and maybe Joe, do you have something else you want to add maybe for the women’s perspective,

Joi Abraham 37:13
oftentimes women think too much and don’t breed properly. So you can learn how to not think that’s very hard to do. And just be that’s one of the things that you should learn first. And another thing is to learn, you know, don’t hold your breath. You know, learn how to cultivate how all of these things so that you can do them at the moment. And that way you can actually be present.

Joi Abraham 37:41
When you’re in the middle of, you know, whatever intimacy you’re doing at the time. A lot of women also, and this is not necessarily as physical but they also absorb other people’s feelings throughout the day. And oftentimes what they’re feeling is not actually theirs, and that can keep them from being connected, attracted, or aroused from their partner. So learning how to filter that and get rid of what’s not theirs is key to refocus. Number five, number 5.5

Yadi Alamin 38:16
gets rid of target leverage. That’s they used to prick it and you would see, you know, dark purple and black blood come out of liver five. That’s by spleen six. It’s almost on the bone. But it’s extremely sensitive.

Joi Abraham 38:32
You can press it

Yadi Alamin 38:33
If you are carrying other people’s emotions.

Céline Remy 38:35
And where is it located?

Céline Remy 38:38
It’s on the ankle? No, no.

Joi Abraham 38:42
It’s in between the big toe and the second toe.

Yadi Alamin 38:46
No number five is signing

Joi Abraham 38:49
You’re right. Liver five is. Go ahead.

Yadi Alamin 38:52
It’s on the lower leg in between the ankle and the kneecap. If you have just go to google images and look up liver five. It controls like for men to a lot of times we have we make love and let our anger out. Like when we have an ejaculation that’s when it’s like here you take this.

Kevin Anthony 39:12
Thanks.

Joi Abraham 39:17
Can I get this sperm? Should I put up my legs and we can show.

Céline Remy 39:27
if you want. If you’re what you’re watching the video ad is showing it right there. Got it? And if not just go to Google and have that. Awesome. Good to know. So we have we’re going towards the end of the show. And we always have our least favorite questions.

Céline Remy 39:45
But before we get to that, tell our listeners where they can find more about you. I know that if they are in Charlotte they can come directly to your clinic but you also have programs and Qigong programs that you sell online courses. says for any anywhere around the world for people there

Yadi Alamin 40:04
Qigong saved. me there’s male sexual Qigong if you ask for it, I haven’t? And actually, if you look up Yachty Alamin on the internet the people who stole my program will hit Google’s ranking first. Yeah, there’s that and then there’s what is cellular hydrogen for Molecular molecular hydrogen as well? Yes. And Charlotte Aki, body word calm

Céline Remy 40:38
will have all the links in the descriptions for sure, too. But if you are interested in learning more about g Kong some of the programs and check out Yadi and Joi go to their website. So now we come to our very last question and favorite juicy one. We are curious what is your best sexual talent?

Yadi Alamin 41:01
And go

Joi Abraham 41:06
Oh, wow.

Kevin Anthony 41:10
Jeopardy music going?

Joi Abraham 41:13
This will be ours.

Yadi Alamin 41:14
You won’t need it. No. No, no, I was gonna answer what is yours?

Joi Abraham 41:19
What you’re gonna answer for me.

Céline Remy 41:24
You can do the question the way you want. It’s like sex, you can do it the way you like, as long as it works for you.

Yadi Alamin 41:30
I’m far more sensual because you know, I’m used to touching things and people and like, I can tell you where things feel good too, like I’ve watched and listened to and because what I do like I make, yeah, you

Joi Abraham 41:50
This is why we bonded because I’m also a very special person too. And I actually like to involve all five senses. And I want my partner to involve all five senses as well, while they’re

Yadi Alamin 42:02
intimate, so there’s a dog farting in the background. It’s a killer.

Céline Remy 42:15
Awesome Yadi. Enjoy. Thank you for being here today and sharing with us and sharing about your story. It was great to hear that we hope our listeners are inspired. And we will see you all and hear you all next week in our next episode.

Kevin Anthony 42:35
All right, everybody. That’s all the time we have for this episode. And we will see you next week. We hope you like this episode of the love lab podcast. If you enjoy this show, subscribe. leave us a review and share it with your friends.

Céline Remy 42:53
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Kevin Anthony 43:07
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Céline Remy 43:08
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