Our Trip To The ’Naked City” Of Cap D’Agde And More…

Kevin Anthony 0:12
Welcome to the love lab podcast a safe place to get real about sex. Whether you’re a man, woman, single or couple, this is the show for you. Because, well, sex. We are your hosts, Kevin Anthony and Celine Remy.

Kevin Anthony 0:27
All right, welcome back to the love lab podcast. This is Episode 61. And it’s titled our trip to the Naked City of Cap D’Agde and more. So we’re going to be covering not only our trip to Cap D’Agde, but we’re also going to be talking about the benefits of being naked and how taking these types of trips and adventures can help your relationship there’s so much to talk about, and we can’t wait to get started.

Céline Remy 0:55
Well, here’s the thing we just got back from an entire month in the south of France, we still slightly jet-lagged, but we were doing pretty good. And we get to experience you know, the French and European culture around sex and nudity. Oddly, see, this is a culture I grew up in. But it still was really good to experience it together and really like, well go on a trip to really experience it fully. And that’s really what we did.

Céline Remy 1:22
We went to the Naked City, we went to a nude beach, regular beach, I mean so many different things. And we’re going to tell you all about our experiences and how this can inspire you as well. So, if you are excited about this episode, as much as we are. Get ready because it’s going to get juicy.

Céline Remy 1:41
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Kevin Anthony 2:02
Alright, so this is going to be a really fun episode. Because Well, we’re just talking about fun stuff and get dive was a fun place. But first, let’s just say for those that aren’t familiar what cap dog is, and before we even do that, if you want to go look it up I mean you’ll see it in the notes here but it’s not Cap dog. like a lot of Americans would say it’s not DOG. It’s not even DAWG. It’s a French name, which is d apostrophe AGDE. So if you want to look it up.

Kevin Anthony 2:37
So Cap D’Agde is kind of called the Naked City. And basically, it’s like a small village, but modern by you know, small village standards in Europe, where the entire thing is naked. So some people live there, some of it is just a resort for people to come and visit. But you can be naked, anywhere you want. Like, literally not just on the beach like anywhere.

Céline Remy 3:04
Yeah, I believe it’s the only city in the world that offers that. And it’s I was gonna say fenced in but it’s gated, basically.

Kevin Anthony 3:14
Yeah. So you can’t just wander in there. It’s actually quite tightly controlled.

Céline Remy 3:20
It was surprised. So when we were driving there, we reached Cap D’Agde. We’re like, oh, was it city because there’s Cap D’Agde and there’s Cap D’Agde, like the naturist village, and they are separated. Once we found it, you had to drive a little bit further. We finally found it and like, Oh, hello, there’s like, a gate and things. You can just enter through it like this, you have to pay for it. And you have to show your ID your passport.

So it felt like it created a sense of safety, a safety container, really, because like I said, No, you can’t just enter like this. And you have to show who you are. And they keeping track of what’s happening. So I thought that was really well done for that.

Kevin Anthony 4:04
Yeah, I was excited to go to Cap D’Agde. I’ve been to the south of France before. And I always thought it would be a fun experiment to do. But I’ve never been quite in that region of the South. I’ve always been more east of that in different parts. And so it was kind of fun and exciting to actually get to do this. So just so you know, our intention of this particular trip was not to go to Cap D’Agde.

It just so happens that we were close enough to it that we said, there’s no way we cannot go if we’re this close to it. Exactly doing it for you, the listener, because we knew how much you love to hear these stories.

Céline Remy 4:44
Okay, we were doing it slightly for us too, because we had heard about it. Truth be told,

Kevin Anthony 4:49
yeah. So let’s dive into what our experience was like. And it really does start I think with what you were just mentioning, which is you actually have to stop you park you get out you go into an office, there’s a whole checking procedure. And then once you’re you’ve checked in, then you go through an additional security gate, or they check to make sure that you have the right, you know, credentials, whatever.

Kevin Anthony 5:14
And then you finally get into the city. Mm-hmm. Now, what’s fun about this is the second you really get into the city, it’s pretty obvious that things are different. Because there are naked people everywhere, like riding their bikes, carrying their boogie boards to the beach, just walking down the street sitting at a cafe.

Céline Remy 5:34
Yeah. So here we are driving, and there was no guarantee that we could get a parking spot, but we still decided to bring in the car. And you’re like, Oh, this is different. You start seeing people on their balconies, everybody’s naked people have people wearing sarongs. And stuffing like, this is cool. So we finally figured out where the parking one of the parking was. It’s kind of in the middle of it, we park there.

Céline Remy 5:59
And first thing Kevin says like, we need to get naked. Oh my god, hey, I mean, can we do that? He’s like, Well, yeah, we’re in the Naked City. So I think that’s when the first fun part started. Because when was the last time you parked your car, and the first thing you did was taking off your clothes, and then just carried your bag and walked around in the city, right? So we were like, we had to do it just because it was so fun to be able to do Oh, absolutely.

Kevin Anthony 6:27
You can’t go to a Naked City where everybody’s just like riding their bikes naked and stuff. And then like walk around with your clothes on.

Céline Remy 6:34
But also what’s interesting is not everybody was naked, some people were wearing some piece of clothing, or even were fully clothed. And that’s what I like, it doesn’t seem like there was too much pressure to be naked. It’s not like because you’re in Cap D’Agde, you have to be naked. But it also felt very welcoming for those who wanted to be naked, that there was no judgment. So there was no judgment. Either way, wherever you decided to remain clubbed or be naked.

Kevin Anthony 6:57
Yeah, that’s just a good point to make. Is that you have a choice, of course. And I’m sure that you know, some people are coming and going. And if you’re on your way out of the city, you’re obviously. But my point was kind of like when else do you get an opportunity to do this, if we’re here, like, we have to do it. Mm-hmm. So we did, we parked the car, we took off all our clothes, and we’re headed for the beach. And we headed for the beach, which was not that close, it was a bit of a walk.

Céline Remy 7:23
It was But hey, we were like just naked and shaking it then having a good time. So we found the beach. And what was interesting, we were aware, we did a little bit of research beforehand. So we were aware that the beach had different sections. And but we didn’t really know where we were from where we entered. We figured out later on where we were and we’ll tell you all about that. But just so you have an idea. Usually, the beach is kind of like this section that’s more family-oriented. So you’ll get the kids and family.

Céline Remy 7:52
There’s kind of a midsection that’s kind of a buffer zone. And then there’s like the risk a was like anything goes pretty much then there’s another like I want to say milder buffer zone probably. Right? I don’t I mean, we had heard there was a maybe a clearer homosexual section, but honestly, I didn’t like I think everybody was mixed. I didn’t feel like it was very separated, which I really appreciate it because I really don’t think it should be.

Kevin Anthony 8:22
Well, first of all, the way it had been described us from other people that we know who’ve been there is exactly that, that you go and the beaches very clearly divided. You have your family section, you have your gay section, you have your, you know, sex of this type section. They made it seem like it was completely sectioned off, really clear. When we got there, we actually found that’s not at all the case.

Kevin Anthony 8:49
While there are sections, there are no signs, no markings, like we didn’t like as Céline said, we didn’t find anything that seems to be specifically gay. It just looked like it was just all spread out. And the only things that we saw that were really clearly delineated was this family section was very obviously, family-like it was where all the kids were, it was just like any other nude beach that you’d go to. And then the risk a section was way more grounded, way, way more crowded. It was like a sea of people

Céline Remy 9:30
So the funny part is, we are walking in, and so we kind of we, from how we entered, we missed the family section. So we didn’t see it until later when we went for a walk. But and we started walking. And then we went into this really crowded area. And we’re like, oh, no, there’s no way we’re not going to be like we like to have a little bit of space around. So we kept rocking through it. And we saw nothing. We’re just like, Oh, it’s just a space that’s very crowded.

Kevin Anthony 9:54
Yeah, well, I mean, so one, we were sort of focused on finding our spot. But but to just like, you know, when you go to a normal beach, it’s not really cool to stare, you know, like, like, even if you go to a regular beach where everybody’s wearing clothes, you don’t go there and you’re walking, and then you see a good looking woman and you’re like, Oh, you know, like you just don’t do that because it’s rude, right? So

Céline Remy 10:17
we were blessed to have the proper sunglasses. And I did buy my perv glasses, which I that’s how I call them the ones that I can put on and nobody sees my eyes. So nobody knows what I’m

Kevin Anthony 10:28
looking. It’s okay to admire as long as you do it in a way that is not offensive to anybody. But so we weren’t really looking. And because we weren’t really looking, we didn’t notice anything.

Céline Remy 10:40
Yeah. So that we passed this bar apart, we sit down, we find our space, we lay down, we go in the water and like kind of like just have fun. And it’s just fun to be there. We take in the sun. And then we decide, well, let’s go explore. So let’s go for a walk. And I think we go one direction and on the beach is only two kilometers long. So it’s not so long. You can walk to both ends. There’s that. Yeah, yeah. So we walked to one. And I think that’s how it went, right? And we’re like, oh, this is already the end of it.

Kevin Anthony 11:09
Yeah. So where we were we had come in, there are two entrances to the beach. And if you’re walking towards the beach, there’s one on the right one on the left, we entered on the one on the left. And then we walked quite a ways. But we didn’t realize that we were actually relatively close to the end of the beats. And so we started walking, and then we hit the boundary to the left pretty quickly. And we were like, Oh, those people over there. They’re actually wearing swimsuits

Céline Remy 11:35
was it? No, I think that’s the ever beach where they had swimsuits because this one was still in the village. But it stopped like this, there was a rock. So something

Kevin Anthony 11:43
that was at the end of the family section. Okay, all right, where there was actually an inlet and there was a rock wall. But on the other side, there was just another beach after that. So we just had this turnaround and go in the other direction.

Céline Remy 11:57
So we come back and we start to walk, we see our spot, we continue walking, and then we like, oh, what’s going on over there?

Kevin Anthony 12:05
Well, so we get to that part that’s really, really crowded. And now I’m not carrying stuff, I’m not looking for my place like now I’m just kind of like more curious about the environment that we’re in. And so I’m just kind of like walking around, I’m not looking at anything, in particular, I just catch out of the corner of my eye, somebody who’s pretty close to the front. It was a woman giving a man a blow job.

Kevin Anthony 12:29
And I was like, oh, that just hit me instantly why this section was so crowded. Oh, this is the section we heard about where you can actually have sex on the beach. And so once I saw that I started paying closer attention. And then I could see things here in there where people were actually meet

Céline Remy 12:54
each other Yeah, all kinds

Kevin Anthony 12:56
of, you know, sexual play. But what so before I say what I was gonna say. So I’m noticing this, Selena is kind of like looking around in other places. And I’m like, oh, how can I point this out to her without being like, look at that, look at that.

Kevin Anthony 13:17
And not because like, to us, it’s actually not that big of a deal. It’s not like, Oh, my God, look what they’re doing. It’s just that I wanted her to know where we were at. Like, I wanted her Oh, we’re in that section, right. And once you saw a couple of them that I didn’t have to point it out anymore.

Céline Remy 13:37
And now but one thing that I thought was really fun is it’s actually okay to watch there. Because it’s more of a part of the beach, where if you’re an exhibitionist, that’s where you go, because you want to be seen, you want to be in that environment. So I’ve actually noticed there was a time to where there was a big circle with somebody giving a blowjob to you, they were out in the water, he went out in the water, but as people do stare to people look at you.

Céline Remy 14:02
But at the same time, it’s also somewhat private, it’s not like, in the sense, I had imagined maybe more of a, like a gigantic orgy going on on the beach. And I was slightly disappointed. I was a very regular, and, you know, it was like, people of all shapes and ages and size and everything. And it was so cool to just witness people totally natural and naturally doing what they wanted to do. And that kind of freedom is very thrilling. Absolutely.

Kevin Anthony 14:35
And, you know, I was also surprised to that, you know, when you think about a place where you can go and be naked. And when you think about the fact that they do have sex clubs in the evening, and they have a section of the beach where sex is, is not just tolerated, but like that’s where you go to have sex. You might have this idea in your head, that it’s literally going it’d be like walking into a giant orgy.

There’s going to be sex everywhere moaning and screaming, and like, it’s just like, a porn movie orgy that you’ve seen.

Kevin Anthony 15:10
And honestly, it was nothing like that. No, I admit, this was one day out of 365. And who knows, maybe it gets crazier at different times. But what we witnessed really was just a lot of people, all in this area, doing mostly what anybody else does on the beach, getting a suntan sleeping, eating, talking, swimming, and mixed in here in there.

There were people just having sex. And what I thought was so cool about that is so you know, Céline and I frequent nude beaches a lot, this isn’t anything new for us. And, you know, at any other nude beach that you go to any type of sexual activity or conduct is highly frowned upon.

Kevin Anthony 15:57
And the reason is, especially here in the United States, because the status of these beaches is in a delicate position, such that anything that would give authorities an excuse or reason to shut down a nude beach would be bad for the beach. Right? When and in all the ones we’ve been to in the states sexual conduct, is it like that’s the thing, not only is it illegal, you can get a ticket, you can be arrested. It’s just it’s really bad for the beach.

Kevin Anthony 16:26
And so all these times that we’ve been to nude beaches, like every once in a while, we’re just like, wouldn’t it be so great. If like, I could just go down on you right now, you know, wouldn’t even be great to just massage you and touch you, but because you can’t, you know, it’s just like, it’s a fantasy-like, oh, boy, that would just be nice. Like, we’ve been here on the beach all day long. We’re cuddling in the sun. And wouldn’t it be nice to just be able to touch your breasts or, or whatever, and you just can’t do it.

Kevin Anthony 16:52
So what I loved about Cap D’Agde is that you can do that. If you’re laying there and you look over at your partner, and suddenly you just feel this urge to be like, Oh, yeah, you can just do it.

Céline Remy 17:08
Yeah, very natural, very natural. So that’s definitely that was our experience there on the beach and just watching and to be told we brought books, but we did not read

Kevin Anthony 17:22
that that’s true. And I know what you’re all wondering right now is we tell you this. Did we go to that section and have sex? I know you want to know the answer to that.

Céline Remy 17:33
We’re gonna tell them.

Kevin Anthony 17:34
Yeah, we’re gonna tell them. Unfortunately, no, we did not have sex.

Céline Remy 17:39
And it’s all because of me.

Kevin Anthony 17:41
Well, yes, yes, it is. I really want to join like, when are we ever going to have an opportunity to have sex on the beach in a public place? Like, I know, plenty of people have had sex on the beach, like at night in a little private Cove, hoping that nobody was gonna walk in on you. But I mean, like, just broad daylight. full sun. Let’s have sex. Uh-huh. But we also were not on this trip alone when we had people with us.

Céline Remy 18:10
My brother. Yeah.

Kevin Anthony 18:12
Who was already it was already stretched to even be in the city. So we didn’t want to push it too hard.

Céline Remy 18:22
Now. It’s just yeah, we have we decided we’re gonna have to go back again.

Kevin Anthony 18:26
Yeah, exactly. And there are some other reasons which we’ll get to a little bit later in the show as to why we have to go back.

Céline Remy 18:32
Yeah. So So that’s kind of the beach experience. And I’m going to fast forward a little bit into after like, five, six hours on the beach, we decided to cruise around and just kind of like, keep walking naked in the city because you can and there are all these different little shops stores and it’s mostly like sexy lingerie, BDSM and things are like things that are just all for your sexuality. There are a few like regular markets, which is kind of hilarious because you can go in naked like,

Kevin Anthony 19:01
literally like a little supermarket Haha, and you just walk in and buy you wine and cheese and beget.

Kevin Anthony 19:10
And that’s it. And it’s like no big deal. Yes. But yeah, the this the shops that were mostly revolving around the late-night culture that goes on.

Céline Remy 19:19
So then what do we notice? We’re all the different clubs where you can experience different types of sexual experiences. And one thing that we definitely do is I think Cap D’Agde is really good if you’re a couple. And that’s also what my brother was saying, as a single guy. He was like, well, there are not many single women, everybody’s in couples. And a lot of the clubs are like, this is for couples only or up well as if you’re a couple, you’d be way more if you’re a single guy. And so there’s a lot of things around that.

Céline Remy 19:51
So I think if you have a friend, it’s better to go with a friend at this a couple like, like be a couple for that time. Or if you know in a relationship, just do that. But what’s really fun is that there is something for everyone. There is something for all the different flavors of sexuality, whether it’s a BDSM club, and there’s something going on every night, a different theme, a different costume different stuff that happened to we found a spa. Oh my god, I really wanted to do that.

Céline Remy 20:16
But we were only there for one day, and we didn’t have enough time. But it said that sexual expressions that it was tolerated. It was accepted. And we’re like, oh my god, like, because really, honestly, how many times have you gone to a spa where you live in a Jacuzzi, or you go to a sauna? And then all you want to do is like suck humans dick or touch each other or have sex? It has happened to me? Yes, I have had sex and Jacuzzis and places like this, but it’s better if it’s accepted.

Kevin Anthony 20:44
It’s better if you don’t get thrown out arrested. But Exactly. I mean, who hasn’t had that fantasy where you’re you’re at the spa with your partner? Like, oh, wouldn’t it be great? Yeah.

Céline Remy 20:53
And that happens there. Yeah. I mean, it’s really cool. And so I think the thing to do, and that’s what we’ve decided we want to go back for, like three days where you can do two nights, because a lot of it really does happen at night, with the clubs with the music with the experiences, but it seems as I mean, yes, you might get propositioned or people saying you just have to exercise you know, but it’s really cool, because it’s a place of total freedom and sexual expression.

Kevin Anthony 21:21
Yeah, and that’s really the coolest part about it is that it’s just when it comes to sexuality, at least, it’s total freedom of expression.

Céline Remy 21:31
Absolutely.

Kevin Anthony 21:32
I mean, literally, they have a there’s a marina there, and there are restaurants and shops and all that kind of stuff. You could be literally walking along the side of the Marina. Seeing everybody just sitting on you know, what looks like almost a very typical French Cafe where it’s all outdoor seating, and everybody’s just naked. And they’re having their espresso.

Céline Remy 21:57
We hope and we give you a good idea of what kept looks like and maybe even like BQ curiosity. And we want to bring in two of our listeners because the show was also inspired by our listeners, Bobby and Tina and Bobby and Tina are naturist people they’d like to be naked. And what they wanted to hear was how naturism or nudism aids us, like taking nude vacations, to keep that constant state of arousal.

Céline Remy 22:24
And so, yeah, so here we are, we went to Cap D’Agde, we are sexually open people, we this is something that is part of who we are. But even though to us it wasn’t like such a big deal. I have to say the sex we had that night was phenomenal.

Kevin Anthony 22:41
Yes, it was. Well, here’s what I thought was interesting. Now, because you know, we’re around sexuality a lot. I mean, aside from being work stuff, you know, we’ve been to our share of sex parties and sex-positive culture kind of stuff. And so we’re really used to that. But I really found at least being near the section of the beach where sex was, was okay, the sexual energy, that the sort of vibe, the energy coming off of the whole area was really, really intense like it was palpable.

Céline Remy 23:19
So I remember when we back to our little bungalow in the evening, and I remember being tired and you were like, telling me how you felt so energized, how being able to be into an environment that was shame-free, that was supportive of the sexual nature that wasn’t like shaming it or judging it really was turning you on lighting you up, and you’re like, I have so much energy and I don’t want to make love and whatever, you know, and like as soon as we started and I got into it and hearing your, your excitement about your experience, and then we have we just had this amazing sexual experience, like multidimensional.

Céline Remy 24:01
So definitely yes like to answer Bobby and Tina’s question this type of experiences when you get to share that as a couple can absolutely reignite the sexual, the passions, your sex life, just your sense of adventure. And when that happens, you have more libido and creativity. And when you have that fire, it translates into every area of your life.

Kevin Anthony 24:29
Yeah, that’s exactly it. I mean, we spent a day on the beach and in the city. And I was really feeling strongly that that vibe of like sexual energy. And I just took that home and used it with you.

Céline Remy 24:44
Absolutely. And so another thing that we did, we went to a naturist beach. And one thing that I really love about the French culture and in Switzerland to I don’t know about every country in the year in Europe, because I haven’t been to all of them, but many, many of them, especially the South ones, is that it’s very common to have places where we have naturist clubs, camping areas.

So you can go to full camping where everybody’s naked is really much part of the culture. So it’s super easy to find naked beach. And we found one that was not too far from where we were staying. And we decided to spend another day to another like to this beach in particular.

Céline Remy 25:24
And what was cool is we found a way to park and I asked one of the guys who was there was like, Hey, where’s the naked Pat but part and he was like, keep driving. It’s at the end. So you know, we’re always at the end. So we’re like we got back into the car. We continued until we found the end. We found the naked beach there was amazing there too, is it’s just it felt so much more normal there. And it’s okay for people to be naked. And definitely we walked.

Céline Remy 25:54
I mean, we could have walked for hours. We probably walked for an hour, but we never reached the end of the beach. We walked a long way and when never it was still naked people as far as the eye could see

Céline Remy 26:06
is amazing. You can just go on a hike naked is like Yeah,

Kevin Anthony 26:10
yeah, I’ll tell you some of the differences between what I experienced Europe versus here. So you know, here the nude beaches are relatively safe, but there is sometimes a component of you know, the pervy guy in the back who’s trying to make it look like he’s not touching himself. But he really is like that mean it happens we have to be honest and what I didn’t see you know, like for instance, we also know another beach where there’s a section of weeds, like really tall weeds and you see men going in and out all the time.

Kevin Anthony 26:46
I’ve never been back there but I’m pretty sure I know what’s happening. So what I what I didn’t see when we were in Europe was really any of that I didn’t see any looky-loos like people coming down just to stare at the naked people.

Céline Remy 26:57
It didn’t feel us pervy That’s true.

Kevin Anthony 26:59
Yeah, I didn’t see as any of these weird single guys sitting in the back, like rolling over humping the sand or anything like that. I didn’t see people in and out of the weeds like, it just it’s felt like any other beach you’ve ever been to except everybody was naked.

Céline Remy 27:16
The beaches were really nice. Because sometimes the nude beach is kind of like, well, you get what you get. It’s the last one where tourists haven’t gone to. But these were like really nice.

Kevin Anthony 27:26
Yeah, they’re just like any other nice beach in the south of France. And you know, I’ve actually been to a bunch of nude beaches across the south of France. And they’re all really nice. That’s true one that isn’t.

Céline Remy 27:36
Another thing that’s really cool is we went to different parts. The different beach also. And then we’re not all naked beach. But what’s awesome is you can be topless. And so it’s so nice to just be able to be topless, and it’s accepted. I have to be honest, though, because I’ve left Switzerland’s for now 14 years. So it’s been a while since you know, I’ve lived in Switzerland and been around in Europe, Italy, and France.

Céline Remy 28:02
And things have changed. So one thing that we’ve realized is, you know, in some people’s minds, they’re thinking, Oh, my God, a Naked City, a naked beach, and my God, this is going to be like my porn fantasy. You have to realize that it’s very regular people.

Kevin Anthony 28:15
Oh, yes. And they’re even more regular in Europe now than it used to be. Exactly. This is a big difference. So, you know, I’ve been to Europe numerous times over the years. And I can remember the first time I went, which was over a decade ago, and I remember walking around the city of Paris and thinking, My God everywoman here is amazing. They’ve all got these great little bodies in their fit. And they’re just, I was like, blown away. And so I’ve kind of still always had that sort of idea or association in my head.

Kevin Anthony 28:47
But you know, you know, we noticed now, we noticed that today, they look just like America, there are tons of overweight people out of shape people weird, strange body shapes, like all that kind of stuff. They’re the idea that it’s all just fat, lazy Americans who eat to bigger portions really isn’t true. It’s almost universal across any developed country now. And the other thing, too, is this is really funny. This was something that happened. We had gotten picked up at the airport. And where we were staying was about two hours from the airport. And we were driving for about an hour.

Kevin Anthony 29:24
And then Celine says, isn’t it great? We haven’t seen a single McDonald’s. And the second she said that we drove past the McDonalds. And after that moment, we were kind of paying more attention. Because mean, we know that fast-food restaurants have been in Europe for a long time. But there weren’t really that many of them. Most people didn’t like them. They thought it was crappy American food, which it is.

But we started paying attention. And there were fast-food chain restaurants, everywhere, everywhere, even in small little cities and villages, not even like big ones. So this sort of globalization of cheap, unhealthy food is really spread all over the world.

Céline Remy 30:07
Yeah, that’s pretty unfortunate. But what I’d like to discuss is some of the benefits of being naked. So now we know that okay, it’s not always like it isn’t your fantasy, and you get to see real people real bodies. And that definitely really helps because I think it just kind of like helps with appreciating yourself more with having if you have body image issues, because you’re always thinking if you compare yourself to like magazines or pictures, and then you like you go to the beach and you notice that people do have cellulite.

Céline Remy 30:38
People have like, really gigantic testicles or not at all, not at all or lop-sided breasts. So weird thing that you felt you were the only one or people do have body hair or like you like wow, actually, I’m normal.

Kevin Anthony 30:51
That’s often the biggest realization for people when they do something like that. It’s everybody’s got their thing. They’re like, Oh, I got this thing on the weird one, you know, and when you see everybody naked, you’re just realized that everybody’s got stuff like exactly what you see in magazines. Of course, we know this intellectually, but now you get to experience it firsthand. It’s all made up. It’s airbrushed even like the supermodels got a little cellulite in our little crease or a little thing here there. And that’s all just photoshopped right out.

Céline Remy 31:21
And so I think that really helps you, especially as a couple, because then you get to see that Wow. I mean, I look at my husband, I’m thinking man, this man is so hard like I want to do him. And I really brought you know, it helped me to bring that juiciness back home to accept who we are in our bodies and just celebrate who we are. And never benefits of being naked and truly naked in the sun as you get no weird tan lines. You know, I actually know a few people that think tan lines are sexy. I think they are.

Kevin Anthony 31:52
I mean, they happen right? Everybody gets a tan line. So if you have it, you have it. It’s no big deal. Like it’s not like we will go You’re weird because you have a tagline but, but to intentionally wants to have tan lines seems ridiculous to me. So every now and then we will be at a nude beach will see somebody who obviously doesn’t frequent a nude beach. And it looks bizarre to me to have two giant bright white triangles on your breasts. For like, like, you know, an ass that is so white, that you have to put your sunglasses on, and then the rest of you is all dark. It’s just, it’s pretty silly to me.

Kevin Anthony 32:27
Yeah, I mean, as I said, it’s if it happens, it happens. But if I had a choice, and I was like, naked with my partner, I would prefer to see one nice solid color. It could be light, it can be dark, doesn’t matter. But this whole, like weird tan line thing, it’s bizarre, kind of a thing that we talked about, it does take the stigma out of being naked. And that’s really nice. It is. And so there’s some stigma around being naked. And then there’s the opposite thing with being clothed, which is we looked at people and we make a lot of judgments and assumptions about them based on how they’re dressed.

Kevin Anthony 33:06
Are they dressed nicely? Do they have an expensive watch on? Do they have expensive jewelry on? You know, are they dress provocatively or very conservatively? And, you know, you look at certain people say, Oh, he’s probably a doctor, or Oh, this person is this or that? Or you make all these judgments? And the cool thing is, is without any of those signals, you have no idea.

Céline Remy 33:29
Yeah, it really makes everyone on the level playing. That’s like the same for everyone. I think you know, it’s like you’re literally naked, and sometimes behind, we hide behind those other things. When you’re naked, you just can’t hide anymore. And I think it helps to bring more of the heart are more of who you truly are like you cut through the BS go straight to what really matters.

Kevin Anthony 33:55
How about you do the next one on the list? Because I know it’s one of your favorites.

Céline Remy 33:57
Oh, do you appreciate yourself more? Oh, no, we’ve already talked about that. Are you mean swimming naked? Swimming naked is so amazing. It is just it’s plain. It’s better. It’s That’s it, there’s nothing else you can say about it. When you feel the water and you feel you leave. Yeah. And it’s like, they kind of like become little like

Kevin Anthony 34:17
little things.

Céline Remy 34:22
But I really like the way you feel the water on your body so sensual. You have to try it. If you haven’t yet swim naked, you have to give it a try.

Kevin Anthony 34:32
Once you get used to it, you don’t want to go back. Like when you have to go swimming and you wear a suit. You’re like this sucks. Let’s see. It’s a turn on. I don’t know if we covered that one already or not?

Céline Remy 34:45
Well, you kind of mentioned how you got turned on being there at the Naked City and the great sex we had. So I think we kind of mentioned that.

Kevin Anthony 34:51
Yeah, but we’ll talk about it just a slight bit more, which is, you know, one of the things we notice, even around our own houses, when it’s warm out, we’re naked around the house alone. And the more we’re naked, the more we touch each other, the more like, look at Celine and start to get turned on and like it really helps create that constant state of arousal that we talk about all the time. So that you don’t have to go from zero to 100 when you decide now is the time to have sex. You know, like when it’s the time to have sex. Maybe you’re at like 20, 30.

Céline Remy 35:25
and you more open to like spontaneous sex because you have nothing else to remove. You’re like, oh, what the heck, let’s just do it. Do you know? It? Definitely we have more frequent sex. We touch each other more. I think we have here It definitely plays a big role in that.

Kevin Anthony 35:40
Yeah, absolutely. So yeah, I can totally be used in that way. And so of course, that brings us to the last one on the list, which is your relationship will benefit.

Céline Remy 35:51
Yeah, your relationship with yourself because your self-esteem get boosted, you feel better, you love yourself more and your relationship with your partner, because it is you just are who you are, and you love yourself. And when you love yourself, you can love your partner more everybody accepts themselves more like Kevin mentioned, you already turned down, you’re already in that constant state of arousal. And it’s just you don’t have to restart.

Céline Remy 36:17
You have to just continue and see where it takes you. If you haven’t yet taken naked vacations, we highly recommend that you do that. And maybe you won’t be able to go to us but there are places you can go to. There are places that are naked friendly, even here in the US. And if you can’t you could do a staycation that is naked.

Kevin Anthony 36:39
Yeah. And say I guess we do that from time to time

Céline Remy 36:41
we should do that. So there’s always a solution but spend more time naked. See how it feels. Enjoy it enjoy each other and see how it changes yourself and your relationship.

Kevin Anthony 36:52
Absolutely. All right, everybody. That’s all the time we have for this episode and we will see you next week. We hope you liked this episode of the love lab podcast. If you enjoyed this show, leave a comment and share it with your friends.

Céline Remy 36:57
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