Our Live Tarot Reading

Kevin Anthony 0:11
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Céline Remy 0:20
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Kevin Anthony 0:28
Alright, welcome back to the love lab podcast. This is Episode 157. And it is titled our live tarot reading Kevin and salines love prediction. So you know here on the show, we’d like to leave no stone unturned. So in other words, if there was a tool, or practice, or something that you could potentially use to make your life better your relationship better your sex life better, then we want to explore it and find out whether or not it has value for you.

Kevin Anthony 1:02
We’re doing the legwork for you. We’ve tested everything out. We’re using ourselves as guinea pigs, hence the love lab. So today, we’re going to have a special guest, Dan, who’s actually going to do a live reading. So you’ve heard us on the show many times talking about how easy Our relationship is, and you know how things tend to work and all that?

Kevin Anthony 1:22
Well. Now you’re going to find out what the cards actually say, does it match up with what we tell you? Or are we completely full of shit? We will find out. We were both saying before this really move we’re a little nervous. What are these guys gonna say?

Céline Remy 1:40
It’s all good. It’s all good. I’m excited to see and I’m excited to get some insight. And I’m also excited for all of our listeners to get a feel of what it’s like. Because when you hear tarot cards is a lot like usually, you think about this like a gypsy woman with her, the crystal ball, and a finger over her head. And it’s full of mysticism. And it doesn’t have to be that way.

Céline Remy 2:04
And today, our guest, Maisy will probably tell us more about this too. And you’ll see that it’s a tool that you can use to really enhance your love life, your understanding of yourself, and use it for your self-development. So I’m excited that we’ll be able to show that in life. So, before we get started, let’s give a big shout-out to our sponsor’s power and mastery. If you want to join the secret club of men who are great in bed, then check out power and mastery at power and mastery.com. It is the most complete sexual mastery training for men.

Céline Remy 2:36
Whether you want to have harder erections and last longer or increase your sexual skills. There is something for you at power and mastery.com. So go check it out. Our guest today is Maisie Bristol. She is a sought-after Tarot teacher and an astrologer that guides individuals towards clarity and self-development.

Céline Remy 2:57
Maisie specializes in offering one on one readings that provide her audience the healing tools they need for a deeper understanding of their mental health, relationships, and life choices. Her work helps people dial into their inner wisdom for self-development and reflection when going through transformative challenges. So welcome Maisie to the love lab podcast.

Maisy Bristol 3:20
Hi, thank you so much for having me. Super excited to be here.

Céline Remy 3:27
We are excited and nervous, I’m already sweating.

Kevin Anthony 3:31
Okay, so for the listeners, what we’ve decided to do today is we’re kind of just jump right into the reading and we’ll let Maisie describe what kind of reading she’s going to do. And then we’re going to talk about it a little bit. And then we’ve got some follow-up questions about the Tarot itself, and basically what you just witnessed.

Céline Remy 3:51
Yeah, and I want to say to like, maybe you could talk a little bit about this, like, because people think are you going to predict the future? Or is it What’s happening? Or maybe we could kind of lay that ground first, so people can understand what’s happening really there.

Maisy Bristol 4:07
Right. So a lot of people think about Tarot as like some prophecy kind of prophesizing tool that we can look into the future with and predict things and that can happen, but I usually find the terrorist most effective when we’re talking about self-development, and just understanding where our thoughts are in the current moment. It’s all about sorting all the thoughts that are happening upside are up in our heads.

Kevin Anthony 4:39
So So would you say that like, you know, there are other tools that people use, you know, pendulums or whatever, but my take on a lot of those tools has always been that what they’re really doing is helping you basically talk to your inner self, right? And so getting the answers from your inner self that You’re sort of inner self knows that isn’t being influenced by your conscious mind. Would that be kind of similar to Tarot? Yeah,

Maisy Bristol 5:09
yeah, I definitely feel that a lot of answers are coming from our intuition. But on top of that, I also like to associate it with journaling, because that’s really what journaling is about, you’re talking to yourself, you’re trying to layout all your thoughts. So and sort of coming up with a narrative flow, you know, with those thoughts, you decide, when you journal, you just write everything down that you have upstairs, and then you kind of go Oh, I get it. Now.

Maisy Bristol 5:35
I can understand how a goes to z. So with tarot cards, I always associated each card as like a thought or like something upstairs, right. So then we have all those thoughts scattered on the table and the Tarot reader’s job is to kind of find the narrative between them. So that it’s understandable for the client, because we go through a lot of situations that are just so overwhelming emotionally and physically and mentally, you know, that it can be hard to, to figure out from a realistic or third party perspective, what is actually happening, and take our hearts out of it.

Maisy Bristol 6:12
So terrified, I think, is a very blatant way to do that. Where even if you’re not consulting in a tarot reader, who’s a third party, the act of using Tarot is a third party system. Like it’s an objective thing that you cannot run away from Oh, cannot really dispute. It is harder to read for yourself. I’ll say that, but when you know, a certain like a negative more negative card.

Maisy Bristol 6:37
I don’t like to use negative-positive reinforcements but like the tower comes up for a yes or no answer. 30 National questions go and are like, no. So it’s hard to say, Oh, actually, I’m reframing that. So I want to see what I want to see. But Terra, Terra, can be that third-party perspective for you.

Kevin Anthony 6:58
Okay, so, tell the listeners what you’re going to do today.

Maisy Bristol 7:04
Okay, so today, we are going to do a reading for you to live. And it’s going to be super fun. We are like before this, we started this recording, we come up with a five-card spread. But I think I’m going to add another card in there. So I’ll tell you what it is. So we have six cards total. And we have an overview card just like where you are right now what your relationship is the current energy.

Maisy Bristol 7:29
The second card is what Kevin brings to the relationship. And then the third card is what Celine brings to the relationship that you know that Kevin needs or that spleen needs. Basically, what you bring that the other partner needs very much in a relationship, the special elements of this relationship, why is it special?

Maisy Bristol 7:49
And the fifth card is a long-term potential card. like where’s this going? What is this gonna look like? stand the test of time? That kind of thing. And the last card is an advice card.

Kevin Anthony 8:01
All right. All right. Let’s do it.

Céline Remy 8:03
And how does it work? Do we? You do it? Do we talk in between you just talk like and

Maisy Bristol 8:10
I typically don’t like to talk because this is not about me. So if whoever is talking or, you know, collecting the energy in the space is what who the cards are gonna respond to so I normally tell the client, I just asked them questions so that they talk. Or you guys talk if you guys just talk to each other. We’re basically picking up on your relationship. So that’s what I would say. We shuffle

Céline Remy 8:37
those in there nothing about us. So we have not given any at all like Yeah, all at the moment. That’s right. Have you guys gotten a reading before? Um, I have Yes. But not for us. But like, Yeah, and I do tarot cards myself as I have for 20 years. So I loved your cards. But yeah, we haven’t done this for ourselves.

Maisy Bristol 9:03
We have not what’s so exciting. It’s hard to read for yourself. It is in my opinion.

Céline Remy 9:12
Yeah.

Maisy Bristol 9:15
Oh, would you guys both say that you’re open to it. Oh, you’re definitely silly and definitely open. Normally, my process here is just to wait to see until the cards stop popping out of the deck. I consider them their own lives like entities so I don’t disturb them when they do their work. And so if they’re gonna keep if they keep popping up, or cards keep lying out. Then I keep going until I feel like it’s settled.

Maisy Bristol 9:47
So we’re almost there. I will call a cut the deck twice and then I will pull in usually like an energy card. From there. I call it an energy card but it’s like a theme card. Basically. Way to look through the spread and a different lens or like in an overview lens. Scanning news.

Céline Remy 10:10
We are shuffling, we’re breathing, our hearts are beating, I

Kevin Anthony 10:15
should have had the sound effects today we get the Jeopardy music going.

Kevin Anthony 10:25
I don’t know what does this means? If it takes a really long time for the cards to settle down, I don’t know, this is a good omen or a bad omen.

Céline Remy 10:33
It just means there’s a lot of energy there.

Céline Remy 10:41
Okay,

Kevin Anthony 10:42
all right, there’s something going on there killing it. something going on here, we don’t know what yet. anticipation is building.

Céline Remy 10:52
Are you as nervous as we are our dear listener?

Kevin Anthony 10:56
I actually am a little nervous. It says something good. I know, it is important to know that, you know, it’s not necessarily good or bad. Like if you do Tarot, and you understand the cards like some people will see a particular card and like, That’s horrible.

Kevin Anthony 11:11
That means life’s gonna be over, I’m sure maybe we’ll talk more about this. But it doesn’t necessarily mean that at all. So that’s important to know. And remind ourselves as we’re waiting on our cards, we don’t know what will happen. Um,

Maisy Bristol 11:35
okay, so the first thing I will say, so we had two flyer cards. And then I pulled my little energy card, and then we have six, the six cards for this Rep. So we’ll go through that. But the first thing I will say is that we have a lot of like high value, or high key energy going on because we have a lot of court cards that are both King and Queens. So a lot of really solid major iconic cards. So overall, and saying that you guys are in a very mature, stable, and intense relationship.

Maisy Bristol 12:12
Like it’s, it’s just really nice to see King and Queens together. Because it’s like that’s like power couple status, you know. So the first thing, the first thing we’ll go into is the energy card. So the energy card I got was the queen of swords. And so obviously, I’m just thinking this is the lane. So we have swords, as a suit is it’s a suit or action and what we do, why we do those things.

Maisy Bristol 12:40
So the queen of swords is generally like a woman who knows exactly what she wants and knows exactly how to get there. And so she’s like not afraid to take the next step to like to be bold, you know, to really take action, as opposed to just daydreaming or like feeling and not doing you know what I mean? So it seems to me that you’re very powerful like a powerhouse kind of woman who takes charge and will make things happen.

Maisy Bristol 13:04
And that’s, that’s just the at the forefront of the relationship. That’s you. And it’s almost like you’re the one who guides the relationship, not the relationship itself, but or maybe actually both, I would say but like, it’s like, You’re the one who leads you guys in social situations. Like you’re the one who goes, Hello, this is me. This is Kevin and like, and you start talking and he’s like, cool, you do your thing.

Maisy Bristol 13:28
Then you come in later. So Céline is really like the force, life force, you know. And, and I think maybe that also might mean that you wear the pants in the relationship. But the rest?

Kevin Anthony 13:44
Well, should we comment as you go? Or should we just wait till the end? You can do whatever you want. If you want to comment as we go, that’s totally fine. Oh, yeah, that’s cool.

Maisy Bristol 13:51
I get on a rant I get like in the zone, and I just like to spew out information. So if you want to stop and talk, that’s totally cool. Well, I forgot to stop.

Kevin Anthony 14:00
No worries. So I would say that, yes, Celine is very powerful, and she definitely knows what she wants. And she’s definitely a Dewar. In fact, she’s so much of a doer that sometimes I have to remind her to stop doing so. So yeah, that part is absolutely true.

Kevin Anthony 14:16
No doubt about that. I would say though, you definitely don’t wear the pants per se in the relationship. And you’re not so much the one out front in the social situations. But when you feel comfortable with people that you know, well, then that actually it is much more

Céline Remy 14:37
true, because I’m actually the introvert and he’s the extrovert. So usually in social things, and let him go first, and kind of like stay behind until I feel like I’m safe. And then I can be like, okay, I can really be myself. So that’s, that’s interesting, too. But I see the part of the driving where definitely I’m usually the one pushing us to be like, Okay, let’s do this. upgrade or let’s do that and like kind of make things happen. And when I decide something, it happens very quickly.

Kevin Anthony 15:06
That is true once you’ve decided, alright, there’s no stopping.

Maisy Bristol 15:15
Um, well, okay, I’m just going to keep ongoing. Yes. Um, so, okay, so see the queen of swords at the beginning and at the forefront of the theme. And then we have the other two flower cards. And this. This is a very specific situation. And it may relate specifically to Celine, but it’s definitely to one of you. But this is why I’m like, well, maybe the queen of swords came up with them together because it’s talking about Céline.

Maisy Bristol 15:43
But the idea here is that we have the seven of swords, and we have death. So I’m thinking like as seven of swords, that means, well, that’s like revealing secrets and hidden truths. And then death, the death card is New Beginnings or transition. So the evolvement of this relationship has been from a place of let’s start a new chapter, it’s from a place of your hurt once before, and now it’s time to be open again.

Maisy Bristol 16:14
So someone was healed in this relationship, because or due to like a past relationship, or someone was dishonest, or where they were just opening up so much, and that, that they didn’t receive the same kind of love. So like, I’m thinking like, revealing secrets, or hidden truths is either regarding a past person that hurt you, or it’s the fact that you revealed so much that it didn’t work out in the end, and you were, like, guarding your heart.

Maisy Bristol 16:41
So in going into this relationship, so the point is, the queen of swords may have, if this is about you, then it’s, it’s more like you are this way. And so I’m so confident and because you feel so supported, because you have that, like a new beginning, that fresh start. And it just looks like a really healing and sensitive relationship so far. So that is like the overall scope.

Maisy Bristol 17:11
And then we can kind of get into the, to them what the rest of the cards say because some of them say other things back to these cards. Sometimes that’s why I like to just talk because like, we go for a circle back to other things. And so the overview, I said I was gonna pull a card for like how it’s going, what’s happening, we got the king of cups, so this is a king, we have two kings in this spread here. And the one Queen upfront.

Maisy Bristol 17:36
So to me, I mean, this is, to me, it represents Kevin, and cups are about our emotions and sensibilities. And it just, basically, this tells me that he’s providing you a sensitive space for you, to share your feelings on anything. It’s like, I can handle all the emotions, I can handle anything that you throw at me, I can handle the ups and downs.

Maisy Bristol 17:57
And sometimes I feel like the king of cups is kind of like he has so much to share, but he like doesn’t or something. But I feel like in this particular sense that it’s more like you are, you’re just creating a safe emotional space for her. So that’s for her like a soft landing. So there’s a lot of support and a lot of love in this relationship currently. Yes.

Maisy Bristol 18:24
And then on top of that, what you bring to the relationship is the next card. And that was the 10 of Cups here. So again, we’re like seeing that transition or as the connection between the two cups cards. This is a card of like, total emotional fulfillment. So what he brings to Celine is the idea that true love really exists. And this is really a thing, and here we are living our best life.

Maisy Bristol 18:48
I feel like, especially if this is about sleeping in the background, that maybe that dream wasn’t a reality at one point. That was something that you were questioning. And you know, maybe that love wasn’t that it didn’t exist, but maybe it wasn’t going to exist for you in the way that you had hoped or had dreamed about. For him to come in, be like, I can handle this and I want all those emotions and I want to be deep with you. It’s kind of like a dream come true.

Maisy Bristol 19:16
You feel really just like totally at peace, which is nice. I mean, it’s awesome. What you bring for him, we got the High Priestess, which is the moons card, which is all about emotions. So you guys are both like, there’s just like emotion like the emotional channel is just like flowing. It’s awesome. It’s just totally open. There’s nothing to hide.

Maisy Bristol 19:41
There’s no like blocks or walls, you know, which is great. But on top of that, the High Priestess is about intuition and gut instincts. So I feel like she brings out that risk that we were talking about earlier that like gut instincts. Follow this gut-like instinct that you have Don’t overthink it. It’s going to be great, you know, where she just helps you kind of tap into your inner voice.

Kevin Anthony 20:09
Yeah, that’s one thing I’ve definitely learned with her is to trust her intuition. She rarely is very strong about something like, you know, if we’re trying to make a decision, and when she is when she comes in, and she’s like, no, I really, we need to do this. I’ve learned I need to listen to that, as a perfect example was in 2020. There’s a yearly trip that we go on every year.

Kevin Anthony 20:35
And all of a sudden, a few months leading up to the trip. She was like, I don’t know why, but I’m getting a big No, we shouldn’t travel abroad right now. And I was like, we take this trip every year. She’s like, I’m just getting a really big No. And I was like, Okay, I’m gonna listen to you. I will tell our friends that we normally travel with that we’re not going to go this year. And you know, what happened? The very month that we were supposed to go? COVID lockdown. file. Okay.

Maisy Bristol 21:05
Oh, my God, what kind of like Scorpio Pisces? Do you have it in your chart? All that intuition?

Céline Remy 21:15
I don’t know. Look at it.

Maisy Bristol 21:18
Um, well, yeah, she’s definitely This is definitely her being like, Listen to me, I know what I’m doing. And also, you know, like, she’s, it’s not just about her being intuitively right. But she’s also like, trust your intuition. Because this is how I’ve learned I’m not special. You know, I just listened to my, what my self is telling me. And you can do that, too. And so I think, just like opening up that whole idea that our intuition can be so right, it’s probably one thing.

Maisy Bristol 21:49
Okay, so then we have the last three cards, which are the special connection here. And this is why when I said the pants, I was like, I’m not really sure about this, because and then I was like, we’ll get we’ll see the rest. Because I didn’t, I couldn’t remember what category this card was in, because I had it written down here and it wasn’t prepared.

Maisy Bristol 22:10
But the special connection is that we got the king of swords, and then right away, I’m going oh, this is the queen of swords. So the really special connection is that you guys are both equally like this is this is the most equal that you can get. Between the king and the queen. And both having the swords you guys are both like up their royalty, you both have the definitive action and the ability to take action. In this relationship.

Maisy Bristol 22:41
You don’t put each other down, you listen to each other’s ideas, swords are about our ideas and logic and intelligence. So you both find each other highly intelligent. So it just is like a perfect match, really. So the specialness of the relationship is that it’s beautiful and super compatible. So I know we haven’t gotten to anything really, like super bad or anything.

Maisy Bristol 23:07
But we did I pulled the long term because I thought it would show what’s coming up for you because everyone has ups and downs in their relationship. And this one isn’t really like a down. But it is something that may come up over the next hundreds of years that you guys are that your souls are together. But we got the Hanged Man reversed for the long-term potential. And this doesn’t really mean anything other than the fact that you guys are going to continue revealing deeper darker sides of yourself like.

Maisy Bristol 23:39
I viewed the Hanged Man as the skeletons in the closet, the kind of things that we can shove away and we’re like not now don’t feel like it. And when it’s upright like this, it means we got reversed here. But when it’s upright, it means that we’re acknowledging that it’s time to face those fears or those insecurities, or those things that we don’t want to look at. But when it’s reversed, it means that something is thrown at us so that we cannot escape it and we must face it.

Maisy Bristol 24:07
So basically what this tells me is that you guys are going to be helping each other work on your insecurities and working on that stuff that you think is gross about yourself and just hate. So it’s a positive. It’s saying that there I know that you have been through these experiences already. But it’s saying that there’s more to come and that there’s more growth to be had here so it’s not just love and stagnant forever, like loving growth, which is which in turn the grows the love to so it’s all positive but there’s more to come.

Kevin Anthony 24:44
No, just kidding.

Maisy Bristol 24:47
That’s the final card we have is the nine of pentacles first, so the nine of pentacles. So this is what I’m feeling this is the knight of Pentacles is a card of like abundance, bountiful material abundance, it’s really it’s like not just the material abundance, as our possessions, but it’s also our self-worth. Pentacles are like earth energy. So it is that like value in both money and self-worth.

Maisy Bristol 25:17
So upright, this part is like I have high self-worth, I have high value I like to surround myself with valuable things. And I feel really good about it, it’s just being super-pleasurable like, just like, laying in satin sheets, you know, that’s kind of what this is like, but reversed and actually feel like you guys don’t take a lot of time to, to like, to come together and these like, material pleasures, you know, like, like going out on a nice date or, or like I don’t know, I mean, not not not having sex, but more like, exploring, like more luxury sides of sex or like, or more sensual side.

Maisy Bristol 25:55
And it’s mostly because I think you’re just so busy like you’re doing so much stuff. It’s not against, like, that’s not there. But it’s more like, I think that there’s there needs to be the more time in just, I don’t know, luxury, whatever that means to whether it’s like dark chocolate and wine, or just like a moment to delay in bed, you know, on a Sunday morning without having to think about what’s next for the podcast, or whatever you’re doing that day. Just taking time in and spending and that material bliss.

Kevin Anthony 26:30
That’s so funny that you mentioned that because yesterday, we were spending time with a friend of ours who’s also a very successful entrepreneur. And she was kind of telling us about her week in her schedule. And her schedule includes a spa day every week, where she literally has like this whole spa treatment. And she’s telling us about her whole schedule, and we’re both looking at each other going like,

Céline Remy 26:54
what are we doing?

Kevin Anthony 26:57
If you’re right, we don’t, we don’t take a lot of time necessary to spend in luxury, that that’s pretty true. We’re both rather practical people. And we’ve always got our financial goals here. And we’re saving for this and we’re doing that and you’re right, we don’t actually spend a lot of time. We’re not necessarily the Hey, let’s go spend a couple of days in a five-star hotel but you know, we would like to

Maisy Bristol 27:25
I mean, it’s like doesn’t even have to be five stars, you know, anything, but just like creating a sense of what we’re gonna spend on ourselves is what I’m like feeling, you know, like, we’re gonna treat ourselves.

Kevin Anthony 27:40
We’ve been working on that one more in the last few months. But prior to that, yeah, that’s true. We really haven’t. I mean, I, I wanted to, I’ve been, I’ve been baking for almost 30 years. It’s like one of my passions, and I haven’t bought a new bike in a decade.

Kevin Anthony 27:56
And I really, I really wanted a new one. And she literally had to, twist my arm to convince me to spend the money on it’s very expensive these days. Yeah, so yeah, not cheap. We don’t often allow ourselves some of those pleasures, I guess that we should.

Céline Remy 28:15
But we have been doing better. And that brand is something that we need to bring more. Yeah. Hey, that’s gonna be a fun date night to brainstorm What do we can do? Make a new wish list.

Kevin Anthony 28:29
All right. Any other comments on the reading that you’d like to share with us?

Maisy Bristol 28:35
Other than looks like you guys are a match made in heaven? It looks very good. I mean, the cards wouldn’t. I wouldn’t say that unless I was actually seeing it. And it’s pretty hard to deny, like this court card cemetery. This is huge. I mean, we only pulled six. Well, we have 9 cards. Yeah, we have nine-part. I’m so great at math.

Maisy Bristol 29:07
We have nine cards. And there are seven, eight cards in the whole tarot deck, and we got two from the same court card system and they’re both high-value court cards.

Maisy Bristol 29:19
That’s massive. Well, you can’t deny it.

Kevin Anthony 29:24
I will say to the listeners, and I don’t know, you know, maybe lots of people feel this way. But what we see in the reading here is actually what we’ve always felt since we’ve been together. So it’s actually really cool. To see that the cards reflect what we feel our experience actually is.

Céline Remy 29:44
Absolutely. And also when you find your perfect match, you feel it, you know it it’s different. And because we’ve both been in different relationships prior and there’s a different feeling for sure.

Kevin Anthony 29:59
Yeah, this is one of those things where, you know, everybody wants to know, well, how do you know it’s the right one? Right? Every romantic comedy movie? This is the question that comes up. How do you know that he or she is the right one, you know? And the funny thing is, is those movies, the answer in those movies always says, you just know, right?

Kevin Anthony 30:18
Just now, like, awesome, thank you so much for the invite. Yeah, fuckin doesn’t help. Right. But I will just say this, that, you know, I was already significantly older by the time that’s needed night. And that, right? Like I was in my early 40s already when we met. So you know, it’s not like, I’m in my 20s or even my 30s when we get together. So I’ve had enough years and enough relationships. You know, like, I had some experience there. And I can honestly say that when we first got together, I literally just knew

Céline Remy 30:55
We needed the tissues.

Maisy Bristol 30:58
Was it love at first sight? That’s a thing.

Kevin Anthony 31:02
Well, we knew each other for several years before we got together, but we were in other relationships. But we literally had attraction from the first day we met. Yeah,

Céline Remy 31:11
it just wasn’t right. So we had this whole dance until we

Kevin Anthony 31:15
could find a way until our other, you know, our lives, basically, our other relationships sorted themselves out such that we were available for

Maisy Bristol 31:25
I guess it was just a timing thing. But it is kind of true. Like you just know, I remember, like, my first like super, super serious boyfriend, I was gonna marry him and everything. But we fell in love. Like, I fell in love, like, on the first date, like I, I just didn’t, I didn’t know-how as possible because I didn’t know this person. But I was like, I just know I love. Like, I know it, I feel it in my bones that I love him.

Maisy Bristol 31:52
And I know him already. And so it was just weird. And then it turned out to be like, absolutely. You know, we had like a three-year relationship and everything. But like, the point is, your soul can recognize a familiar soul, right. And if that is an intense connection, like you just know the person before you even, like, talk to them. You just understand them. Crazy. So those connections can happen.

Céline Remy 32:19
So this was really awesome. I hope for our listeners too, just to see what is possible and great inside. And we’ll definitely like dig this in. And thank you so much for doing this for us. Amazing. And I’m curious, do you about maybe some of our listeners are not currently in a relationship? And so can terror still work for them? Like what? How could they use that?

Maisy Bristol 32:45
Well, I love the Tarot because it can help anyone. So even if you’re not in a relationship, you can start asking how you can better attract love for what you should be looking for or signs of your next person. Like what you can even do a reading on like, what this next person is going to be like, what is there? What, how am I attracted to them? Where do I meet them? Or how do we connect? Like, what am I going to feel?

Maisy Bristol 33:14
Those are all things that you can ask about your next partner. But I also think that they’re really great for just sorting out how our past is affecting our present. Because I think that hinders a lot of people looking for love. So I have this spread that I sell. And that I think is awesome. It’s a four-card spread. And the first card is my current relationship with love.

Maisy Bristol 33:37
Because I think that also affects how we date, like whether we believe in true love or whether we were hurt and we’re still angry about it like we’re going and cynical and going and angry and spiteful. So it’s kind of just unveils, like, what is your relationship with love right now? Is it healthy? Is it positive? The second card is like immediate challenge.

Maisy Bristol 34:01
And then the like what is blocking you from love. And then the last part is how is your past affecting your present, or side of this not your last, the third part, how your past is affecting your present. And then the last part is just an advice card a general like what to do next? how to approach it next. So I think that’s,

Céline Remy 34:21
that sounds like one way to read because one thing you know if you do things where you’re like, are you going to meet this person at such plays and stuff? I’m afraid sometimes, especially for women, then we try to make it happen too much. No, it’s like, oh, he’s gonna have to be like six foot three and brown hair and I’m gonna meet him at this particular place. And I know that we tend sometimes to want it so bad that sometimes we try to force something that’s not quite right

Kevin Anthony 34:48
and then you’ll overlook Mr. 511 who’s probably perfect for you because he’s not six feet tall, right?

Céline Remy 34:55
I mean, it could be but I like more of that looking into like that. Like within yourself? And also like, Is there a pattern I could stop so that I can start attracting that ideal partner? Because ultimately, it’s always coming the chance from the inside that will bring it forward onto the outside.

Maisy Bristol 35:16
You’re basically you, I don’t typically suggest that we should read on those topics because I think you’re so right. I even had that spread in my, in my repertoire. My shop a while ago, and a couple of years ago, I took it down because I was like, I think this is, I don’t know, not worth the time or the anxious energy, you know, for that person, because then they’re just gonna be searching and whatever.

Maisy Bristol 35:40
I think it’s possible to read on it. I don’t know if I would advise on it. But I do think it’s best to use Tarot to read on things that you can control start, like any of the outside factors or just outside you can use them to gather facts, like on what’s happening, but in order like around what to do, that should be started within and focused on within.

Kevin Anthony 36:03
Yeah, I think I think there’s a, and you can, you can correct me if I’m wrong. But I think the danger in reading in that way that you just said, you don’t recommend anymore, is that we can, you know, it’s kind of like the observer effect in quantum physics, right? Where the observer affects what’s going to happen.

Kevin Anthony 36:21
So like, if you get a reading, and you’re told it’s going to be a certain way, does that actually influence the outcome later on? Because now all you’re thinking about is it has to be this way? And how can I make that happen, and you’re always looking for that, and then overlooking the other things that maybe are even better for you or more right for you.

Maisy Bristol 36:40
Definitely, I also, I don’t know if you guys believe in the law of attraction, but I am session alive in a law of attraction person. So I’m like if I give this that, give them this idea, and they start thinking about it over and over and over again, they might even attract it just because I gave it to them, you know, or track something like it or it does, yeah. It can get kind of

Céline Remy 37:02
kind of wild, there are certain things that you want you like people will come to you and say, I don’t know, I want to know how many kids I have? Or when I’m going to die, you know, like, they’re like, Are there things that you absolutely don’t do?

Maisy Bristol 37:17
I do not read on health or legal topics. So that health, like includes death or illness or children, pregnancy, all of that I don’t read on any of it. And legal issues like will I win this lawsuit? I don’t usually read. I mean, I in some circuit depends on the circumstance for that one. But for instance, I had I got a message one time from the sister of someone who was incarcerated going through, like some legal issue, and I was like, I am not involving myself in that. No, thank you.

Kevin Anthony 37:58
The possibility of influencing somebody in a negative way, I think it’s too great that right, where people will take something, one little piece of something that you say and latch on to it and run with it. And then it turns out to not be in their best interest potentially.

Maisy Bristol 38:14
Right. Right. So that and with health, I just think it’s unethical. And I’m not really I’m not you know, licensed to talk about that. That’s

Kevin Anthony 38:26
one you want to protect yourself too, but

Maisy Bristol 38:28
then I want to protect myself versus not good if it comes back at me in a negative way.

Céline Remy 38:35
So I’m curious, like do you have so people got a little bit, of course, this was shortened for the show because we want you to fit it in there. I’m sure that when people work with you, it’s a little bit more in-depth. And of course, you know, they can go I guess it’ll be deeper too. But do you have any last word of advice for someone who might be thinking about getting a tarot reading or anything to share with them?

Maisy Bristol 39:04
Yes, I think that if you want to get a tarot reading, you should have some idea of what you want the reading on. Some people come to me. I mean, I have spread for people who don’t know what they want. But I feel like it works better if you ask at times where you need advice.

Maisy Bristol 39:25
And so you know, know what you’re going to ask and try to find some a reader that you connect with, it doesn’t really matter how they read, whether it’s over video or over email or in person, I don’t think it matters because I’ve done all of them and they’ve all been fine. So I don’t think that matters. Just find someone that you connect with because that it’ll be easier for the reader to connect to you and easier for them to read you and whatever medium for a way that they do it.

Céline Remy 39:56
Awesome. So if people liked what they heard or so I want to connect with you. Where can people connect with you? Macy?

Maisy Bristol 40:05
Okay, I am on Instagram all the time. So my handle is @tarotbymaisy. And then I have a website Tarot By Maisy And those are the places that I am on most

Céline Remy 40:18
awesome. And we’ll have the links of course in the description, but you can check out that Tarot by Maisy. And we still have a very last juicy question that we do ask all of our guests. Kevin, you want to do the honor because this is the love lab podcast.

Kevin Anthony 40:32
So you know, we have a question we ask everybody if you’ve listened to the show for a while you know what’s coming, but the interview he usually doesn’t. So our famous last question is amazing. What is your best sexual talent?

Maisy Bristol 40:50
Oh my gosh, so raunchy. I love it. Give me a second to think about this. Um, I feel like I have a good way with clothing and skin and like a presentation. It’s like before the bedroom You know, I think I have a good presentation like body presentation. So I can usually get to where we want to go.

Céline Remy 41:20
tease

Kevin Anthony 41:22
seductress. She’s telling us she’s mastered the art of seduction, clothes and skin texture, all that all essential stuff, you know? Absolutely. Well, thank you for that honest answer.

Céline Remy 41:40
We love it. Thank you also for coming onto the show and giving us this reading and sharing your skills with us. And make sure that you go check her out because she’s you’ve got online courses and you do offer one on one like, as you can see, it can be really useful if you are in a place where you need a little bit more perspective, a third party to help you see more clearly.

Céline Remy 42:05
Maisy is the person for you to check out. So thank you, Maisy for your time and for being on the love lab.

Kevin Anthony 42:11
Thank you so much for having me. Super fun to read for you guys. All right, everybody. That’s all the time we have for this episode. And we will see you next week. We hope you like this episode of the love lab podcast. If you enjoy this show, subscribe. leave us a review and share it with your friends.

Céline Remy 42:33
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Kevin Anthony 42:47
Thanks for listening.

Céline Remy 42:49
And remember you are amazing