Should You Try The Kama Sutra

Kevin Anthony 0:11
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Céline Remy 0:20
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Kevin Anthony 0:27
Alright, welcome back to the love lab podcast. This is Episode 152. And it’s titled, should you try the Kama Sutra. By the end of this episode, you will know whether or not you should embark on this fantastical journey.

Céline Remy 0:46
A word of caution because we just pretzels ourselves into crazy positions have to make a photo for our thumbnail here and I’m still sore from having lifted my head to doing like, Oh man, I should have done both like not just one leg to balance this out.

Kevin Anthony 1:06
So the warning is stretch first.

Céline Remy 1:10
I’ll talk about that.

Kevin Anthony 1:13
Before we get into it, though, I do want to say that this show is going to be away about way more than just positions and Kamasutra stuff. So make sure that you stick around if you’re like, yeah, whatever I’ve heard about these crazy positions and whatever it is so much deeper than that.

Kevin Anthony 1:31
So make sure that you stick around because we’re going to get into all of the different aspects and probably some if you’ve never read the Kama Sutra before that you’re not currently familiar with.

Céline Remy 1:42
And we will also give you some things to try right away that shouldn’t be too hard to do. No crazy possessions, just a few things to get you started on the way. But before we dive into what the chemistry is, let’s give a big shout-out to our sponsor’s power and mastery.

Céline Remy 2:01
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Kevin Anthony 2:23
Okay, so we have to start at the ground level here. Because there are huge misconceptions about what is the Kama Sutra. So we’re going to answer that question first. Before we go any further with this discussion?

Céline Remy 2:41
We got this on Wikipedia, by the way, just to give our sources Yes, I’m gonna be reading that definition. This first

Kevin Anthony 2:47
part here. Yeah, because it’s, yeah, y’all understand what I read. Alright, so the Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian Sanskrit text on sexuality, eroticism, and emotional fulfillment in life. See already you’re starting to realize that it’s not just about positions, is often attributed to Vatsyanaya. It’s neither exclusively nor predominantly a sex manual on sex positions but written as a guide to the Art of Living Well.

Kevin Anthony 3:16
The nature of love finding a life partner, maintaining one’s love life, and other aspects pertaining to pleasure-oriented faculties of human life. And, you know, I don’t even need to read the rest of it. Other than maybe I’ll add this last part, the majority of the book is about the philosophy in the theory of love, what triggers desire, what sustains it, and how and when it is good or bad? So right away, I’ve already blown up most people’s idea of what the Kama Sutra is.

Kevin Anthony 3:48
Because everything’s Oh, yeah, it’s a sex manual is a bunch of positions, and you can do these different positions. But if we go back to that a little bit, it is a guide to the Art of Living Well, the nature of love finding a life partner maintaining one’s life. One’s love life, and other aspects pertaining to pleasure-oriented faculties of human life. That’s huge. That’s huge.

Céline Remy 4:12
So when you think about it, so Kama Sutra is not a sex manual on the about 20% of it explained sexual possessions. But people pay attention to this 20% It’s a fun 20% is a fun 20% but they overlook the rest of the 80%, which is all about kind of like an art of living and loving and Kamasutra with the sexual positions also explained how to live a virtuous life, right? So it’s kind of using sexuality as a way to reach enlightenment as a way to increase your spirituality or your consciousness in this lifetime.

Kevin Anthony 4:53
Yeah, so the thing is if you’re only focusing on the positions, you’re really missing the true knowledge and the truly good stuff that this book is trying to give you. So yeah, I mean, positions are fun, they’re great. And we’re going to talk about those more later on in the show. But the idea of all of those other things like, I’ll give you a little bit of a parallel. So you know, in the work that we do, when we talk, you hear us do commercials for powerandmastery.com and we have these courses for men to help them with different things around their sexuality.

Kevin Anthony 5:30
And so many people are looking for, give me the one trick that does it, give me the pill that works, give me the fast, quick thing. And that’s not what we teach in our courses, what we teach in our courses really are all of the other things, right, all of the other things, and those are the things that really make a difference. Those are the things that are truly important because the quick fixes never really fix anything.

Céline Remy 5:55
Well. And we’ll talk about, again, more of like keeping desire life or something that we’re talking about this because while positions are fun, everyone who’s been in a long term relationship knows that it’s not going to sustain your relationship, you need to have other things in place. Do keep the passion going to keep the arousal to keep the love and the intimacy.

Céline Remy 6:19
And that’s all of those aspects that most people tend to forget, that creates a lack of connection in their relationship. While with this manual, the Kama Sutra, you can start to take a step back and look at what does it require for a relationship to be sustainable in the long term, and to keep the desire and intimacy alive,

Kevin Anthony 6:42
right. And that’s and that’s really the comparison that I was making is like, I bring up our stuff to say that what we’re trying to do is teach people how to have a better all-around fulfilling sex life, and we can’t look at, you know if you have an erection problem as singular and isolated, and all by itself, because it’s connected to the rest of your life and your sexuality.

Kevin Anthony 7:03
Same thing with premature ejaculation. Same thing with being a great lover. It’s not just about learning this trick thing, and then Oh, you’re a great lover. Really, it’s, it’s all about who you are even as a person and how you operate in day-to-day life, and then how you take that into the bedroom. And so I wanted to make that parallel because that’s exactly what the Kama Sutra is doing. The Kama Sutra is not telling you, here are some quick positions that you can do.

Kevin Anthony 7:29
And you’ll instantly be an amazing lover and have pleasure beyond belief. I mean, there’s some of that in there, but most of it is like, here’s really, I mean, it covers everything from literally how to find a wife. Right? I mean, so how to find a partner, you know how to keep it interesting.

Céline Remy 7:47
It’s not just, interestingly enough, it’s not just monogamous sex. And it’s not just heterosexual sex. People some people also switch play with polarity, women, sodomizing men, women having sex with servants. So men, you know, there’s a lot of very interesting concepts. It definitely gets rather see. I want to talk about just for all of our listeners that are geeks like me and her like words and languages, I wanted to bring, like break it down.

Céline Remy 8:21
So come up means desire, wish, longing, or even some people translated as pleasure. While sutra would be more like call, like, concise verse of scripture, it kind of means in Sanskrit secret, Fred, okay. And in the Kama Sutra, they are like focusing on the four main attainments of human beings, understanding the nature of love, finding a partner,  sexuality, sexual health, and the practicality of love. So as Kevin was mentioning, it covers the whole spread spectrum from finding somebody to doing it properly, and to maintaining this and using love as a tool for growth.

Kevin Anthony 9:12
Yeah, absolutely. So I guess maybe I’m hammering this point a little bit too much. But the idea is that nothing is ever separate. And if you want to have an amazing sex life, you really got to have an amazing life. Right? And that’s the thing is, you know, they’re talking about the four main attainments of life. Well, karma is only one of them. Now, it’s an important one.

Kevin Anthony 9:40
And so for people who maybe are, you know, really rocking it in business, and you know, they’ve got these other aspects of life really dialed in, but their relationships and their sex life are a mess. You are missing one of the main things that make life amazing. So I would suggest that you find the time And the will the desire, the finances, whatever it takes to fix that. Because most likely, you’re not going to be truly happy in life if your love life is a disaster.

Céline Remy 10:11
So what are you talking about who brought the camera sutra because there’s a lot of like speculations on that? Some scholar believes it’s a compendium of material from many different authors that were eventually combined into one book, while others attributed to one guy who happened to be a celibate. I find it hard to believe that a celibate person would be able to come up with these ideas because honestly, it kind of shows some experience. I like the idea of the Compendium, it makes more sense.

Kevin Anthony 10:41
Yeah, there’s no way, there’s no way that one guy who had never had sex sat down and came up with all of this stuff that that just didn’t happen. But the thing is, is it was written so long ago that nobody actually knows even when it was written, or who actually wrote it. And scholars, you know, they disagree here or there. But basically, the most likely scenario is that this was a combined work of the different knowledge that was acquired over probably a very long period of time.

Céline Remy 11:15
Absolutely. And then also, not every translation of the work is created equal. Apparently, the very first, English translation was not so good. And it’s full of like mistakes or stuff like this. Now, it’s not like you’re going to use the Kamasutra as like you like the intellectual and like studying and like this, we’re talking more about this, like, how can you use the concept, the ideas, and lessons and bring those into your love life.

Céline Remy 11:43
And that’s more what we wanted to talk about here. So maybe we could talk a little bit about some of the concepts and ideas without having to read all of the crazy names. But one of the first principles in the Kama Sutra is that it teaches a series of rituals to build emotional intimacy, that has nothing to do with penetration. And this is huge because, for most people, that’s the part that’s lacking in their life, especially in an established relationship, the ritual portion of it is what goes out of the window, but then the depth of connection and intimacy also disappears.

Céline Remy 12:23
So some of the examples of things that you can try as a ritual are to synchronize your breath with your partner, you can put your hand on each other’s chest and breathe together and keep eye contact for longer periods. You know, without moving, you can create more of a meditative state. And those practices can heighten the sensations and make you more aware of your body, which leads to greater arousal later on.

Kevin Anthony 12:52
Yeah, so, you know, don’t get caught up in the word ritual. Right? Because that words gonna speak to some people, they’re like, yeah, like, a lot of women would be like, Yeah, let’s do some ritual, you know, but other people are gonna get triggered by it, because maybe that word conflicts with their own spiritual views or whatever, you know, you’re not pulling out the Weegee board, or you know, casting a circle or do a, it’s not that kind of stuff.

Kevin Anthony 13:19
By ritual, they simply mean, doing something special for the occasion, not just like, Okay, we got five minutes, take your pants off, go. Right like that. What they mean is, do something like the examples here. They’re just some simple exercises that help you connect. And actually, if you’re a man, and you want to learn more of this stuff, we’re not specifically teaching Kama Sutra stuff, but in our sexual mastery course, we cover creating intimacy before, during, and after, and that this is part of it.

Kevin Anthony 13:49
This is exactly what they’re teaching right here, which is how to create intimacy. You’re sitting down, your eyes gazing, you’re breathing together, you’re connecting, right, you’re moving that energy amongst each other.

Céline Remy 14:02
Well, and what I’d love to remind all of our listeners is all of these things are free and don’t require anything but just you and your partner, because sometimes we were like, well, I don’t want to spend money on something or, you know, all it requires is a little bit of time and willingness to connect with one another. Plus the aspect of the ritual part is simply to also create repetition with a specific intention.

Céline Remy 14:28
When you repeat something enough, then it becomes a new part of who you are. So if you set the intention to have more awareness in your lovemaking that will become the new way that you make love and that’s, I think, is worth practicing over and over.

Kevin Anthony 14:48
Yeah. Before we go into the next one here. I’m going to do another often powers quote because you know, I like to call it I don’t remember what it is, but it’s in the hot tub scene. And the woman says, In Japan, men come first, and women come second, and often says, or sometimes not at all, baby. Yes, that is true. And that is sad. And that is not the way it’s supposed to be. We talk all the time on this show about how a man needs to be able to last long enough for a woman to be able to have an orgasm. I mean, we’ve done what we’re on episode 152.

Kevin Anthony 15:34
And I would say we’ve probably mentioned it 100 times, maybe more. But we know through research that the average man lasts anywhere from you know, three to five or five to seven minutes before he ejaculates. And the average woman takes 20 to 30 minutes to have an orgasm. So that’s why we say all the time, as a man, you need to be able to last long enough so that she can get there to that orgasm. So that leads us into more of what the Kama Sutra teaches.

Céline Remy 16:02
Well, the Kam Sutra emphasizes female pleasure and makes some pretty modern arguments here. Especially when you think that this all came from ancient India, right? So the book says that men should put women’s sexual needs first and put their own orgasm on hold so that women can climax. Oh, also mentioned, by the way, sex isn’t just for making babies and women should be in charge of household finances.

Kevin Anthony 16:32
I don’t know where that came from. But whatever. That’s not a bad idea. Actually. They’re good at it. So you know, I mean, we won’t go into that. But anyway, yes, I don’t disagree with that. But let’s just talk about that again. Right. So cuz I know some men are listening to this going? Well, well, that’s what’s fucked up. Like, why should I put my needs on the backburner for hers? That’s not what it’s saying. It’s not saying that you should disregard any, you know, of your sexual needs and make it all 100%. about her.

Kevin Anthony 17:06
Maybe sometimes that’s a good idea. But what they’re really saying is, is that, for man, it should not be all about? Yeah, I’m getting what I need until I can get off. Right. That’s not what it’s about. And, you know, I would say, I think that most of the people that listen to our show would know that by now because we’ve been saying that message for 151 episodes. So, you know, the idea is that you’re probably not listening if you’re the type of person that just thinks I just got to get my heart dick into some wet hole until I get off.

Kevin Anthony 17:42
Like, if that’s you, you’re probably not listening to the show. But it is still a valid point to make, that you will have better sex if you can put just put as a guy, put it on hold a little bit. Right. So it’s not just about how great the sensations are in your penis, because there’s another person present, and you might want to consider them, and maybe do things that are specifically for their pleasure and not just yours. You know, that whole like, we’re making love together thing is not just a holdout, you.

Céline Remy 18:21
Also, just think about this, if you want to have more sex, guys, you cannot give her the kind of sex she wants. When a woman is fulfilled sexually, and when she feels that she matters, and that her pleasure matters, and that you are dedicated to helping her get there, she will be so much more willing to spend the time to be intimate to have sex, if you don’t fuck her proper if you don’t give her the kind of sex she wants, she’ll find all kinds of excuses to avoid having it with you.

Kevin Anthony 18:53
Alright, so I cannot tell you how many times we have spoken with couples who are not really having sex not or at least not having good sex, or it’s kind of infrequent or whatever. We listen to what they’re telling us. As we start to provide some feedback, we often say, Well, if she’s not that interested in sex, it’s probably because she’s not getting the kind of sex that she wants. And every time you see her go over there going,

Céline Remy 19:24
nodding her head

Kevin Anthony 19:25
nodding her head. Yeah, for those who are listening on the podcast, I’m nodding my head, or she likes her eyes get kind of big or like there’s always some sort of tell you to know, like in poker, they call it a tell when somebody makes a little gesture, you know when they get a good card or a bad card, whatever. Almost every single time.

Céline Remy 19:47
Alright, let’s talk about, you know, maybe you’re thinking about, okay, the Kamasutra this kind of sex slowing things down, the pleasuring each other. I mean, it’s not ideal when you have just five minutes to make it work. It’s not the type of sex that you want to have all the time. I mean, if you can, that’s awesome. But it doesn’t have to be. You can save Kamasutra for an evening when you both have the time to focus on each other and put the stresses aside.

Céline Remy 20:13
Also, I find that saving these practices for a regular date night or sex time is really something fun to look forward to. And create again, that ritual again has that word aspect of it that you know that once a week, you coming together to practice.

Kevin Anthony 20:35
Absolutely simultaneous orgasm. It’s amazing.

Céline Remy 20:40
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Céline Remy 21:07
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Kevin Anthony 21:28
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Céline Remy 21:32
Sprinkle some Tantra, Taoism, all of these things. By the way, you’ll find a lot of similarities between all of these ancient like sacred sexuality practices, whether it’s Tantra, whether it’s the Kama Sutra, wherever its Tao is, and a lot of these seem to have stemmed from the same place. So I certified in Thai massage and trained in Thai massage.

Céline Remy 22:00
And when I learned that in Thailand, one of the things that they were actually explaining to us was that it originated of probably from India, and then they had to move out and travel and came to Thailand and kind of like got its own flavor. And this is why even in like Indian things with like Ayurveda, other similar things to Thai massage.

Céline Remy 22:27
And so I find out that it is the same way of the sacred sexuality teachings, that some aspects you’ll find in Tantra will be very similar than in Kama Sutra and in Tao is, whatever you study at the route as probably the same beginning,

Kevin Anthony 22:45
Possibly I mean, they may have come from the same original source. And in several cases, we know for sure that that’s the case. And others, we tend to assume that’s probably the case. But there are other potential reasons why you see the same things repeated over and over again to one of which is the universal truths, right.

Kevin Anthony 23:04
And nobody has an exclusive, you know, right to claim the discovery of universal truth. We can talk about the 100th monkey effect as well, right.  I’ve talked about it before, but just very quickly, they didn’t experiment, they had these monkeys on an island, they were completely isolated. And this one monkey learned how to wash a potato in the water to get the dirt off. And then the other monkey started doing and started doing it.

Kevin Anthony 23:29
And eventually, over time, all the monkeys on the island started washing their potatoes before they eat them. Then they noticed that monkeys on other islands who had no contact with these monkeys also suddenly started washing their potatoes, it’s called the 100 monkey effect. So the idea is that people can simultaneously come up with the same idea in completely different parts of the world when they have no contact with each other.

Kevin Anthony 23:58
So whether it is that people just happen to discover those things, or whether the 100th monkey effect, which the idea behind that is, is that once an idea permeates a certain number of beings in their consciousness,

Céline Remy 24:13
the tipping point

Kevin Anthony 24:14
is a tipping point and then literally becomes part of the consciousness of all monkeys, no matter where they are. Right. So it’s an interesting idea. And I think that that’s, that’s where some of this stuff comes from, right? Because some of it is that people are just discovering universal truths. And no matter what language you speak those truths, and no matter what words you give it, it’s still a universal truth.

Kevin Anthony 24:36
And I think at some point, some of these ideas just permeated the consciousness, and they ended up being everywhere, and you’ll see them throughout multiple different cultures, even though they have nothing to do with Sanskrit or ancient India or any of it.

Céline Remy 24:52
Absolutely. So let’s talk a little bit about the lessons to learn from the Kama Sutra. So you don’t have to read the entire Kama Sutra. Take away some of the best parts of it. Number one, the manual recognizes female orgasm in a time when others thought there was no such thing.

Kevin Anthony 25:10
Yes, it’s true way ahead of its time

Céline Remy 25:13
way ahead of its time, but we women knew all about it. And number two, it recommends the man ensures that she climaxes before he does. If there’s only the only thing you take away, that be the best part. In my opinion, I

Kevin Anthony 25:26
highly recommend that and have been teaching that for years myself, trust me guys, it is to your benefit. You’re in you’re rolling your eyes over, they’re gonna come on, really trust me, trust me, you think it’s about her? Yes, it’s about her. But it’s also about you, you are going to have a way better sex if you can do that. And a lot more of it.

Céline Remy 25:47
And the last aspect, which we talked briefly about earlier, is about the sexual boredom and monotony that’s seen as one of the reasons why couples splits read, this is really the biggest thing for people who have been together for a long time. And it was common in India for men to be encouraged to read the Kama Sutra, Kama Sutra, before marrying.

Céline Remy 26:07
And imagine if here in the West, we had this type of sex education, right? Perhaps we wouldn’t have as many affairs, divorce, or sexual issues in the bedroom. So see it as again, not just a manual for sex positions, but a way of living in a way of like doing your life and doing your wife.

Kevin Anthony 26:34
Doing your life and doing your wife. Yeah, that about sums it up right there.

Céline Remy 26:41
So if you are still reversed, we are going to give you some of the juicy things now. And, you know, we recommend that if you are interested in the Kama Sutra that by now you should, you should be motivated and like get a good book or get something, something with pictures. We have this cool book that’s called a pure Kama Sutra sex secrets for modern lovers that

Kevin Anthony 27:06
we can hold it up and

Céline Remy 27:08
holds a sexy, sexy cover. It’s by Nicole Bailey.

Kevin Anthony 27:16
And, she’s not a sponsor of ours, we don’t get anything. It’s just a really cool book that I found in the bookstore years ago. We seem to keep coming back to it.

Céline Remy 27:26
Yeah, and he’s got a spectacular photo. So if the only thing you do is grab a book like this with cool photos, and then you could decide there are 50 positions in this book. There are 52 weeks in the year, you could commit to a year-long exploration of the Kama Sutra and doing one sex position a week, and have a lot of fun.

Céline Remy 27:48
You read one chapter or look at the position, and then schedule a time with your partner to try out this sex position and have fun. That’s one way to have a great year maybe we will do a whole thing on that. And you know how we had the 30-day sex blow job?

Kevin Anthony 28:05
The challenge the 30 day

Céline Remy 28:08
challenges Exactly, yeah,

Kevin Anthony 28:09
maybe we’ll do a one it would have to be like a 50 day Kama Sutra challenge.

Céline Remy 28:14
Yeah. How do I know if we’re gonna do it as a maybe it will be a year? like super slow, right? Yeah, well, because it is all about the art of Central pleasure. So once you bring this up, because again, in the Kama Sutra, there is so much more to it than that, that penetration part. So most people, the thing they do, go straight for a beeline to their partner’s genitals. And while they can feel good, it’s usually not the best way to approach the situation.

Céline Remy 28:46
And the Kama Sutra says that the man should caress the whole of the woman’s body with his hands. By the way, we talk a lot about what men should do. But there are several things too about penis massage or Linga massage and blow jobs and ways to pleasure him and we’ll talk about that in a little bit again, so it’s not just about him giving to her there are both ways, some little tips to experiments right now as you are thinking about pleasures and central pleasures to use your hands in different ways.

Céline Remy 29:19
So you could use your fingertips with a feather-like touch all over her body or his body. You could use your knuckles when you use your knuckles is going to give you a deep static pressure. You could use your breath, your exhalation, your exhale breath as a tool to caress your body, your partner’s body. So imagine that you lovers are a blank canvas in that you are the artist painting the most magnificent art that you can on their bodies. So what it is about pleasuring them, it’s also about the pleasure you get from giving and from being a Merced in that exploration of your partner’s body.

Kevin Anthony 30:04
Well, that’s all the time we have for this episode. No, I’m just kidding. I gotta go.

Céline Remy 30:12
Do you want to be my canvas?

Kevin Anthony 30:14
Oh, yes, yes, yes. Oh, should I be yours paint me a masterpiece wouldn’t be the first time we used some paints?

Céline Remy 30:26
That is true, that is true. Let’s talk about the art of giving each other’s genital massages, because hey, it’s fun. And it goes both ways. So one of the concepts and it’s not just in the chemistry draft, but the idea is that our bodies have what we call body armor, which means that when we have negative experiences, our trauma, or just yeah, just things that don’t feel as good. There’s an armoring that happens.

Céline Remy 30:54
So you kind of like put a layer of protection, especially when it’s around your genitals. And that makes the body less responsive to pleasure and touch. So this is why the Kama Sutra emphasizes also so much reawakening the body and spending time after you will awake and the entire body then you can go and massage each of his genitals with no goals and agenda, but just being present and receiving.

Céline Remy 31:22
And it doesn’t have to go anywhere. But it’s about learning to be a full receiver and a full giver and to feel all of the sensations. And so in the Kama Sutra, it will lead you into giving her a Yoni massage, giving him a Lingam massage.

Kevin Anthony 31:41
Yeah, I believe we even have in our sexual mastery course how to give a Yoni massage,

Céline Remy 31:45
we do. And we do have like more of a healing type one, not just like, oh, let me finger you till you can come, it’s also creating that healing, letting go of their armoring. So that’s a really important skill to know.

Kevin Anthony 31:59
Yeah. And, you know, the last thing I noticed here is the different positions, we kind of already talked about that, so I won’t spend too much time on it. But I will just mention that the positions, I mean, they’re, the idea is to use them to keep things fun and interesting and spicy and different, so that you’re not just doing the same thing all the time.

Kevin Anthony 32:23
The other interesting thing is that different positions will stimulate different spots, different spots inside the vagina, different spots on his penis. And so you can really experiment a lot and come up with some really fun and cool things. You know, some of them you’ll be like, Okay, that was fun. That was ridiculous. We’re never gonna do that. Again.

Céline Remy 32:42
Remember that time I was like, trying to do like a headstand like I was on my head. We were trying to have sex like this. And like, it just, we couldn’t really like figure the right angle. Then I was starting to get dizzy. And it’s like, complete failure really

Kevin Anthony 32:57
didn’t work very well. But there have been other times trying some crazy stuff that did work well, some of which we repeat on a regular basis, because we’re like, hey, that worked really well.

Céline Remy 33:07
And here’s the thing, sometimes the position doesn’t have to be so crazy. Sometimes it’s just a bending of the leg, you could be doing the same position. And it’s like, oh, just bending legs. So as we were getting ready for today’s show, we saw this cool position that I want to try. So the man is laying on his back.

Céline Remy 33:25
But rather than having his legs straight, he bends his legs, kind of like hugging his legs towards his body, while the woman is well she’s kind of on top, I guess. Yeah. And that’s how I was like, okay, we haven’t really done that.

Kevin Anthony 33:41
It’s hard to visualize unless you see the picture, but

Céline Remy 33:44
it’s like a pretzel motion. But I’m gonna put Kevin in a pretzel.

Kevin Anthony 33:49
Alright, I’ll make sure I take my advice from the beginning of the show and stretch beforehand,

Céline Remy 33:53
actually, that they have stretching moves in there, too. They have hip movements because you want to be able to have your hips open before you go into these moves. And you want to do a little preparation for sure. And you know, in in the Kama Sutra, there’s

Kevin Anthony 34:06
a lot of variations of positions. And what’s really different literally is the angle of the woman’s hips. Yeah, but a pillow here you tilted this way you tilted that way.

Céline Remy 34:16
The arms lift the legs well because realistically, how many possessions could you have him on top, her on top, doggy style standing and side, right? That’s kind of like the whole covers your basic your basics Exactly. But then you add a different flavor like a human on there. Oh, her there, the legs there. And so again, remember that the sex positions are only 20% of it. This is why we’re not spending so much time in the red and we do recommend that you grab a book on the internet, find something and have fun actually,

Céline Remy 34:50
I totally forgot but we do have in the passion vault if you haven’t yet signed up for our list, but in the passion vault, we have a freebie with hundreds In one sexual, like Kamasutra positions. It’s a little a guide with graphics with all the little factions, like hundreds of pictures. So if you want to get started right away, you can do that for free. Go to selling remy.com forward slash vault, sign up for the vault, the passion vault and you can download the Kama Sutra pose poses and learn more about this and start practicing.

Kevin Anthony 35:23
Absolutely. So at the beginning of this show, we asked the question, should you try the Kama Sutra? I think that here we are now 35 minutes later, that we have definitely answered that question with a resounding yes. You should try the Kama Sutra and not just the positions. But everything that the Kama Sutra talks about. Be a well-rounded lover.

Céline Remy 35:51
Oh, I love these words of winsome Thank you, Kevin.

Kevin Anthony 35:56
Oh, you’re welcome. All right, everybody. That’s all the time we have for this episode. And we will see you next week.

Kevin Anthony 36:08
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Céline Remy 36:15
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Kevin Anthony 36:29
Thanks for listening.

Céline Remy 36:31
And remember you are amazing.