Can You Really Enlarge Your Penis?

Kevin Anthony 0:11
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Céline Remy 0:20
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Kevin Anthony 0:27
All right, welcome back to the love lab podcast. This is Episode 150. And it’s titled Can you really enlarge your penis? So we have a large episode number 150. It’s a bit of a milestone. And today we will be talking about whether or not you can really enlarge your penis. Okay, we all know the jokes. Everybody gets emails every single day about enlarging their penis doesn’t matter what social media platform you go on.

Kevin Anthony 0:57
If there are ads, there are ads running about enlarging your penis. It is a at least multi-million dollar industry. I don’t really know how much money that industry makes. But it’s huge, pun intended. The question is, can you really do it? So in today’s episode, we’re going to talk about that we’re going to tell you what the experts say we’re going to go over all of the ways in which they say you can we’re going to tell you which ones work.

Kevin Anthony 1:26
We’re going to tell you which ones don’t work, we’re going to share an email that we got from one of our listeners after one of our past episodes where we made the claim that it doesn’t work, and it will tell you what his experience was. And then we’ll tell you what you can really do about it all.

Céline Remy 1:42
Wow, it’s a packed episode.

Kevin Anthony 1:47
Right, it’s gonna be tight in here.

Céline Remy 1:49
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Kevin Anthony 2:17
Sorry, I just assumed that you’ve done this so many times, you didn’t actually need the notes.

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Kevin Anthony 2:45
Yes, yes.

Céline Remy 2:47
Let’s start with our Web MD. What does Web MD has to say about bigger penis and enlarging penises?

Kevin Anthony 2:56
Okay, so, you know, I thought we should start this conversation with do people like is it really a thing? Like, do that many people really want to enlarge their penis? That’s kind of the question, right? Because there’s this assumption that every guy wants a bigger penis, right? So

Céline Remy 3:13
Well, in one survey A few years ago, about 45% of men said they did. So I’d say there’s a fair number of men who say so but it’s not the majority.

Kevin Anthony 3:25
No, and I’m gonna quote you another study that was done after that, that’s gonna say something a little bit different. But there is at least a percentage of men out there who do want to increase their penis size. The question though, is, you know, when somebody says like, I wish my penis was bigger, well, what does bigger really mean? Right?

Kevin Anthony 3:49
So, you know, like I wrote here in the notes, you know, what do men and women consider big or at least ideal penis size? And what do men and women think is the average size? So this is the thing, right? We can’t tackle this topic. Because it’s too big. We can’t tackle this topic without really discussing, like, what is considered a big penis, and what is the average?

Kevin Anthony 4:16
And what do men really want? What do women really want? Right? Because there’s this perception out there, that the men all want bigger penises because the women all want men with bigger penises?

Céline Remy 4:25
Well, as the female resident of the love lab podcast, I will tell you that it’s not something that I think about when I date a man, I mean, I don’t think oh my gosh, I hope he’s been is going to be big enough. Like it actually never really crosses my mind. I’m always curious to see what he’s got. But it’s not an obsession or something that I ever obsessed about or thought about over the criteria.

Céline Remy 4:49
Now I do know of some females who could not reach orgasm unless they had a certain size deck. And so if that’s the case, she even had that in her day. profile if you weren’t at least X amount of inches, don’t even bother.

Kevin Anthony 5:04
Yeah, but they’re honest, they’re the rarity. They’re like the fringe of it more. We’ll get to that as we go on. But I want to quote one more thing from that Web MD article, which is, many men don’t have a realistic idea of what normal penis size is. And we live in a society where pornography is pervasive.

Kevin Anthony 5:22
Some people believe that it’s normal to have a 12-inch penis, it says, oh, Larry, the average erect penis is between five and six inches long and flaccid, not erect between four and five inches long. So this is why we got to talk about this, right? Because a lot of people think, like, it’s normal to have a 12-inch penis, no, absolutely not. Not even close, like, literally, not even close.

Céline Remy 5:49
So five to six inches is the average as an erect penis. So as you can see, most men will fit into those dimensions.

Kevin Anthony 6:00
Okay, so let’s talk a little bit more about perceptions, right, because we’re gonna drive this point home with some more studies. So this is actually coming from the Huffington Post. It’s a couple of years old by now. But at the time this article was written, they did a new survey conducted by a British online medical website called doctor Ed.

Kevin Anthony 6:20
They asked women and men from Europe and North America about their sexual health and happiness, respondents had to guess the length of the average erect penis, and also answer what an ideal penis length is. So they asked him, What do you think is the average and then they asked him, What would be your ideal, right? And it was really quite interesting.

Kevin Anthony 6:42
On average, women perceived the average male penis length to be 5.5 inches and the ideal penis size to be 6.3 inches. Men, on the other hand, thought the average penis length on average is 5.6 inches, and the ideal length is 6.6 inches.

Céline Remy 7:00
All right, so men think they should be a little bit bigger, right than what women actually fought not by match, but point three inches difference.

Kevin Anthony 7:09
Correct. So, so the men thought that their penis needed to be bigger than it really does need to be. But so if we, if we, you know, kind of take the next step there is according to the data, only 10% of men are dissatisfied with their penis size, while 45% are perfectly content.

Kevin Anthony 7:27
The majority of women 67.4% reported that penis size is somewhat important. While 21.4% said it’s not important, and only 11.2% said, it’s very important. So guys, this is the point here. If you’re out there, and you think that your beingness is too small, remember that the overwhelming majority of women, almost 90% of them don’t really care, as long as you are relatively average. Isn’t that interesting?

Céline Remy 8:04
It is, and it’s a good point to drive home because of the obsession really. So nearly everyone for the ideal is bigger than the average. And if you are a man that is smaller than the ideal, is it possible to increase your pen?

Kevin Anthony 8:18
Okay, so that’s the next step. Right? So what we didn’t adjust just a second ago was all right, so most of the women don’t care. But they also all said that their ideal was about an inch longer than what they thought was the average.

Kevin Anthony 8:36
So remember what average means, folks, it means 50% or below that and 50% are above that, and the average is right in the middle. So that means most of the women did report that a larger than average size was their ideal. Right? So

Céline Remy 8:57
if you’re listening in like Okay, guys, got it. Not what do I do because I’m below the average.

Kevin Anthony 9:03
Haha.

Céline Remy 9:06
Well, we’re going to list a few of the things you can do. And because you’ve probably received them in your email, spam folder, or whatever, like it’s everywhere, but let’s start with number one. You’ve probably heard of penis pumps. So the is the vacuum penis pumps are designed to create a suction and they say that it increases your size. It’s a temporary increase to the size that you can reach.

Kevin Anthony 9:39
One Swedish-made Penis Enlargement pump. It’s not mine really. One credit card receipt. Austin Powers humor for you though. So yeah, as we go through each one of these, we’re going to tell you these are what people say will enlarge your penis and then we’re going to tell you the truth of Whether or not, it really works. So here’s the thing with vacuum pumps, does it really enlarge your penis?

Céline Remy 10:06
Well, I think it makes it bigger than when you started. Because with a penis pump, you usually start somewhat flaccid, and then you pump yourself up. So then you have a sense that you bigger, but it doesn’t make you bigger than what you designed to be in your body.

Kevin Anthony 10:21
Correct. And what happens if after you use the pump, you don’t use something like a conquering to hold the blood in, usually it comes down a bit, it shrinks back down to its regular size, right? The point to be made here is that it is a temporary solution. So you use the pump, which basically just engorges the penis a little bit more than it normally would on its own.

Kevin Anthony 10:49
And then you have to use a cock ring or something to hold that blood in there. But as soon as you take it off, and as soon as you’re done, it’s gone. Yeah. And you know, we have had people tell us that they used pumps over a period of time and that it didn’t result in any long-term penis size gain.

Céline Remy 11:11
I was gonna make a silly joke that but I’ll hold back.

Kevin Anthony 11:16
Long-term Exactly.

Céline Remy 11:19
Well, the thing is, with the pub too, you’ve got to be careful, some managers like to go too hard at it, and you can hurt yourself with a penis belt, you can go too far, you can do it too many times. So it does come with a big warning to be gentle with yourself and your penis. Because once you create damages in your penis, sometimes it’s done.

Kevin Anthony 11:44
And we will share at least one story of that later on. So yes, definitely be careful. Now, no penis pumps can have an actual use, there are circumstances where they could be used for I don’t want to really say properly. But like there are certain circumstances where it’s appropriate to use

Céline Remy 12:04
that right. So I had a client who I’ve worked with who had a physical issue, I believe he had diabetes, something physically in his body, and his reaction was not working properly. And in order to achieve an erection, he needed the extra stimulation and he actually got a penis Bob, this is something that he got through his insurance through his doctor because of his physical issues.

Céline Remy 12:28
So it wasn’t just like the penis bump you can get on the internet, it was kind of like one of that medical device sadly, but the bottom line is for him that was how he was able to achieve an erection then he had to learn how to use it hard to put the cock ring, and it’s still allowed him to have a somewhat decent sex life. Granted, we had to work on a lot of the mental piece of it because it ain’t sexy to bring your penis bomb to the bedroom to a new girlfriend.

Céline Remy 12:57
But that was one way to help him with that problem. Let’s move on to our second option to make your penis longer you could use penis weights, basically, do they work? If you put an attached way to your penis? Is it going to lengthen it?

Kevin Anthony 13:17
Okay, so it depends on how you’re attaching the weights. So if you’re attaching weights and simply letting them hang there, what are you attempting to do? you’re attempting to stretch things out? Does It Really Work? Long term? No.

Céline Remy 13:33
Well, you’ve seen people who stretch their ears stretch their lips stretch there next, there is this guy who claims to have the longest penis in the world. And it’s all like in band-aids and stuff and that he said he’s stretched it for all this time. I don’t really know cuz he never takes the band-aids out. I

Kevin Anthony 13:51
don’t buy it.

Céline Remy 13:52
Yeah,

Kevin Anthony 13:52
I have not seen in the research, I’ve done any significant evidence that suggests that stretching it works long term. Now if you keep stretching, keep stretching, keep stretching, keep stretching, you might gain a little bit of size. But what happens if you stop stretching? See, the thing is, is in my opinion, if whatever you’re doing doesn’t result in a permanent size change, then it doesn’t really work. So

Céline Remy 14:16
the temporary fix

Kevin Anthony 14:18
now one of the other things that you will read sometimes when it comes to penis weights, is people saying that they use weights to do exercises with their penis,

Céline Remy 14:28
aha, that is different.

Kevin Anthony 14:30
It is different, but it also does not work in the way they say. So if you understand the anatomy of the penis, like what’s inside the penis and how it works, it’s not a muscle. So you will read things like it will help create micro-tears and it’s the same theory as when you lift weights and you create micro-tears in your muscles and then they grow back bigger.

Kevin Anthony 14:31
Bullshit. That’s not the way it works in your penis. Now what it can do is help you train your pelvic floor muscles which can help you control your ejaculation. But is not going to make your dick any bigger?

Céline Remy 15:02
No, but it could help the blood flow stay more trapped because you have strong pelvic floor muscles

Kevin Anthony 15:07
so that it could do right. So if you have good blood flow, you could help stay hard.

Céline Remy 15:14
So that will help you I mean, doing something about working on strengthening your pelvic floor muscles is good for your sexual health. That’s really what it comes down to. Let’s talk about the penny penis stretching exercises. By the way, how many times are we going to say penis in this show?

Kevin Anthony 15:30
penis penis penis. Lots of times. Okay, so you were referring to jelqing?

Céline Remy 15:37
jelqing? Yeah. What the heck is jelqing?

Kevin Anthony 15:42
Well, joking, is basically stretching, right? It’s doing sort of, it’s a routine of exercises to stretch out your penis. Again, I think temporary results. And honestly, in researching this, I found quite a few people complaining about doing permanent damage. And even our listener who messaged us said he Quit joking because he was concerned about doing damage to his penis. So

Céline Remy 16:12
proceed with caution.

Kevin Anthony 16:14
Yeah, but even still, I really don’t think that it really does any long-term real gain. And remember, we’re not just talking length, either. We’re talking girth as well. From what I’ve seen and research I’ve done there doesn’t seem to be any correlation with any real lasting size, gain, or advantage.

Kevin Anthony 16:36
And there is a possibility of doing some damage. Yeah, yeah, no, and they’re, you know, in some of the Taoist practices, they do have some stretching techniques. But their goal isn’t necessarily large. increases their size. That’s not really their goal. So I would, I would say, Don’t walk in,

Céline Remy 16:58
here’s what happens when you stretch, you increase circulation. The goal in the Taoist practices is really to increase circulation to create good sexual health, not so much to make you a bigger figure or anything like this. Whatever you use tends to be more readily accessible and available, what you don’t lose, you lose.

Céline Remy 17:20
That’s kind of another idea behind that. But we’ll talk more about that. Let’s talk about a few things that are still available or pretend to be available for lengthening and increasing penis size. So supplements are a big one that people sell you appeal so that you can have a bigger penis but does appeal work when it comes to making it bigger.

Kevin Anthony 17:41
No, and I’m going to lump pills and creams into the same category. Because what they claim is and usually there’s some sort of either a testosterone boost or a testosterone precursor. The claim is that if you increase testosterone, you will increase your penis size. However, science does not show this to be true. From research. It basically says that the only time testosterone really influences penis size is when you are cooking in the oven as a fetus, in utero.

Kevin Anthony 18:24
So how much testosterone you’re exposed to can affect penis size. Interestingly enough, I did not read that, you know, being exposed to really high levels will mean your kid will be born with a big penis. What I have read is the research shows that men who have a micropenis, which is a very small penis, reason it’s a micropenis is that it’s underdeveloped. And it’s underdeveloped.

Kevin Anthony 18:50
Possibly, this is what the research says due to underexposure to testosterone in the womb. But that doesn’t mean that overexposure is necessarily going to mean that you have a bigger penis, yes, waiting

Céline Remy 19:02
on the avatar on the other side of the pendulum doesn’t fix the problem, right? And now,

Kevin Anthony 19:07
first of all, most of these supplements will not even increase your testosterone, most of its bunk. But if you were able to increase your testosterone, likely what you would notice is you’re hornier you want sex more, you might even have more boners because you’re thinking about sex more often. But you’re gonna have the same size Boehner. Absolutely.

Céline Remy 19:29
Right. Let’s talk about our last option here if you’ve been thinking but what about surgery? What about that are penis implants or whatever surgery they can do? Could they fix that with a knife?

Kevin Anthony 19:43
Okay, so I’m just going to read a straight from where did this one come from? I can’t remember if this was the Mayo Clinic or Web MD It was one of those two. Very same studies of available surgical techniques to lengthen the penis have found mixed results in safety, effectiveness, and patient satisfaction.

Kevin Anthony 20:03
At best surgery such as division of the suspensory ligament may add half an inch one centimeter to the appearance of the flaccid penis but does not change the actual length of the penis. At worst. surgery can result in complications such as infection, scarring, and loss of sensation or function.

Céline Remy 20:23
Oh shit. So you only make your flaccid penis look longer? Who cares? Right? Who cares how it looks when it’s faceted? Did you want to have it like big? Hard, like the size matters when you were wrecked? Not when you floss it everybody knows that?

Kevin Anthony 20:37
And would you risk, infection, scarring, and loss of sensation or function?

Céline Remy 20:43
Absolutely not half an inch,

Kevin Anthony 20:45
right for half an inch. Even if it was an inch or two inches, it’s like, okay, you want a bigger penis so that you can get more women and have more sex or more men, if that’s that’s your thing. But then you can’t feel anything, there’s no sensation, it doesn’t work anymore. Like that defeats the whole purpose. Well, and ultimately, we

Céline Remy 21:03
have not yet perfected that because people who are transgender and go from female to male, usually don’t have a penis change big Well, a vagina turned into a penis. If they do, it doesn’t really function properly. And they have to have a penis implant were something where you have a pump that’s inside so that you can manually create an erection.

Céline Remy 21:25
So it’s not even like a fully functioning penis. So if they had been good at creating surgery to make this work, they would be able to create penises from the ether like this. But obviously, penises take more than just making an appendix right there.

Kevin Anthony 21:39
Yeah, guys, you don’t know how difficult your penis is to create, you know, they create women’s genitals when they do transgender surgery pretty damn well,

Céline Remy 21:47
they do, they’ve pretty much perfected that if you have a good surgeon, it’s really well done. But

Kevin Anthony 21:53
other than some things that don’t function quite the same way looking at it, you probably couldn’t tell the difference. But penises and  you know, in the work that you do, you’ve worked with a few so you have experience in this area, there is nothing like the real thing

Céline Remy 22:08
now and they don’t work like the real thing. So they give you a sense that there’s something between your legs but then you got to make the bone or happen and press on that button per se or that area right since it’s

Kevin Anthony 22:18
no joke to try to create a penis

Céline Remy 22:20
so here’s the truth that these treatments tend to have modest if any results and that most don’t do anything at all to increase penis size. Well there we say that but some techniques like losing weight may improve your penis appearances or your confidence in bed.

Céline Remy 22:39
And you know people don’t always think about that because you know when you trim the belly all the sudden you see things so much more when you trim their hair It looks a little bit bigger and it’s all a mental game it’s not so much about to what you’ve got is how you use what you’ve got and what you think you can do with what you’ve got.

Kevin Anthony 22:56
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Céline Remy 24:03
Alright, so we’re going to share a part of an email that we’ve received from someone on our list and it’s about his experience and we’re going to keep him anonymous Of course, but he’s experienced with trying to make his penis bigger because we made a claim that those are bullshit we called bullshit on this and he returned back and was like, hey, it’s not true. Here’s my experience but if you see what he wrote you will see that what we claim is bought is still true.

Kevin Anthony 24:31
The devil is in the details as they say so here’s

Céline Remy 24:35
what he did. He started with a pump which he still uses. I do manual stretches clamping for short periods of time to be safe and lately and Angion method. Also jelqing in the past but stop once I found out you can really damage veins with that method. So there’s a big thing online between the jacking and the Angion and which one she is she is best and should be used and people seem to come to the conclusion that the only method is a little bit better.

Céline Remy 25:04
However, in terms of results, they seem to be very mixed and varied. And I don’t really see anything substantial to say that it fully works. So here’s what he keeps saying, I keep in gorged after training with a silicone ring on for half an hour on five minutes circulation break, and then on again, this is a lot of work. By the way, for length healing, I use an ace wrap with a silicone ring or a silicone tube to keep my penis in an elongated state for longer periods.

Céline Remy 25:36
I don’t use any I don’t use an all-day stretcher but are here they great to keep length gaining after training. Also hanging is a good length and base girth exercise. I did it in the past too. But I don’t like the exercise. And I don’t want to get too big. My wife thinks I’m fine like I am now. So no more growing hair. Why? Okay, bodyweight training for a half hour and a half and then another half hour, you’ve got a lot of time on your hands. So

Kevin Anthony 26:05
yeah. And what I want to point out is if you kind of read in between there, he’s telling us that it absolutely works. And here’s his method. But his method is basically pumping and stretching, and then trapping the blood flow in with silicone rings, or Ace bandages. The problem is, though, that doesn’t create any lasting long-term. I didn’t put the entire email in here, because it’s kind of long.

Kevin Anthony 26:33
And there are a few other bits in here too. But, you know, the reality is, is if he stops this training, at any point, any gains that he has made are going to go back to the way that they were before that. And I also want to point out too he says here, my wife thinks I am fine like I am now. So no more growing. Now I don’t know if she means now that you know you’re where you are now versus where you were before or if she means you’re just fine as you are.

Kevin Anthony 27:06
But this is the point is if a woman is perfectly fine, then why are you going through all this? Why are you risking damaging your penis? Why are you wearing Ace bandages and silicone rings on your deck all day long, trying to get a little bit of exercise? When the woman you’re with, it’s perfectly fine with how you are anyway.

Céline Remy 27:25
Well. And here’s the thing, as a woman, let me tell you what makes a difference. In a sense, it’s not so much the length, but it would be more per se the girth, but not even the girth per se is your ability to feel your penis up. So if you have good circulation, if you use some practices to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, and you use your penis regularly, you have sex regularly, your penis and the walls of your penis will feel a bit harder.

Céline Remy 27:50
And this is what we like to feel that you fully into your cock and that it’s throbbing and it’s there and it’s not to see my flatmate. That’s what makes a difference. It’s not so much the fact that it’s seven inches versus eight inches that makes the big difference. It’s how firm and healthy basically the penis says

Kevin Anthony 28:11
Yeah, and I just want to say one more thing. If the person who sent us that email is listening to this episode, by the way, thank you for sharing all of that with us. We’re not here to criticize you at all. But we do want to point out that when somebody really says that it works, here’s what it took. And here’s, you know what we think about the long-term results of that. So thanks for listening, thanks for sharing that. And we just wanted to use that as an illustrative example. For I’ll just

Céline Remy 28:40
quickly mentioned that in his opinion, pumping is the safest method to enlarge a penis. But there are a few safety measures required just like we mentioned earlier, no more than 10 minutes per set and a maximum of free sets don’t pump at high pressure. No, we go beyond 10 hg, preferably stay at five to seven.

Céline Remy 29:00
For best results have rest days in between like one day on one day off for all training. It works by the way, whether it’s a penis or your muscles in your body, and take two sets of static pumping and do one set in pauses to keep the shock effect. So I just really wanted to give this to somebody who’s very seasoned if you listening is still thinking you want to try a penis pump because you haven’t done this. Like, listen to his advice there.

Céline Remy 29:27
Take it slow, make sure you rest, don’t push it at the highest setting, and listen to your body. Okay, so

Kevin Anthony 29:34
it is our opinion that you cannot really in any significant way, increase the size of your penis with any of these particular measurements, methods, whatever. So, if it’s not really possible to increase the size of your penis, is it all doom and gloom if you are small? That’s the next question right because I know some guys are listening to this they’re going well fuck You know if I can’t make it any bigger now what do I do? Right?

Céline Remy 30:04
Well, here’s the thing. Some men may think they need a larger penis to satisfy their partner. But that’s likely not the case. About 85% of women. Let me repeat 85% of women in an internet survey of 52 files and heterosexual people said they were satisfied by the size of their partner’s penis. 85% of women are satisfied. Yeah, yes. So there you have it.

Céline Remy 30:35
Remember that 85% of women are satisfied. We wanted to share with you a story that we found on a forum of somebody who did a lot of jogging and different practices and uh, you know, he was going in detail about what he did, and, you know, someone you reading into like, okay, that’s a little dumb. I’m not quite sure what you were thinking about. But

Kevin Anthony 30:55
here’s some are definitely user error. There is no doubt.

Céline Remy 30:58
Yeah, absolutely. But we’ll just sum it up at he’s ending of his long-winded description of what happened to his penis. He’s saying all of this because I gel 20 times. So my advice to all of you on this board who would be fuck Europeana sighs Trust me, it’s not worth it. It looks like I’ve ruined my penis for life.

Céline Remy 31:19
And I’d hate this to happen to someone else. Be happy with what you’ve got penis size, inferiority is an entirely male-created problem. Women love you for who you are in the children, you can give them something and may not get the chance to experience it now. So stop the jelqing and whatever else you’re doing to your penis and enjoy your health. If you’ve got that you are completely blessed.

Kevin Anthony 31:41
Absolutely. And you know, this is just one example of a lot of people who have tried different methods, not just joking, we’re not just bagging on joking. But you know, a lot of these methods, if you’re not careful, you can hurt yourself. And you can do permanent damage.

Céline Remy 32:00
Well, and especially think about it too, if you go through the idea of creating the micro-tears and some scarring, not of our body heals scars very well, some people have a thickening with their scars, like Halo in some people, just the tissues never feels quite the same sensation wise.

Céline Remy 32:20
And if you do that, in your penis, you’re taking a chance that in the healing process, it may not go as smooth in that it could impair your ability to feel or just even the smoothness inside of your penis. And you don’t want that to have like that scar tissue that happens. Well, here’s

Kevin Anthony 32:39
the thing too, right? Like, you know, I say, Okay, if you’re going to try these things, be careful because you could hurt yourself. You know, like my whole life. People have been telling me Be careful, you could hurt yourself like rock climbing downhill mountain biking, martial arts, guns, swords, whatever it is like, be careful. You could hurt yourself like yeah, of course, we could hurt ourselves walking down the street.

Kevin Anthony 32:57
The problem here though, is you’re taking a significant risk. While there’s almost no upside and benefit, right? I mean, seriously, if you’re five inches, right, which, you know, you’re bout average-ish at five inches, and you risk permanently damaging your penis so that you can be five and a half inches. Really? Does that make any sense whatsoever?

Céline Remy 33:21
No, it doesn’t. So we want to give you some solutions, right? What can you do if you are someone who’s smaller? Number one, communicate with your partner,

Kevin Anthony 33:32
right? So like, you know, like our listener, who commented and said, Oh, his wife doesn’t want him growing anymore. She’s perfectly happy with where he is. It’s like, you may feel self-conscious about the size of your penis. But if you have a partner, simply ask your partner. Is this working for you?

Céline Remy 33:52
And are there angles you prefer because trust me, every size and every penis is different? And there are going to be angles that feel a little bit better. even smaller penis can feel uncomfortable in certain positions, you’ve got to find what works for you and her with the shape of your genitalia. So that requires communication and finding that perfect spot.

Céline Remy 34:16
And you know, we’ve covered lots of things on the G spot but the G spot this like apart an inch deep inside the vagina, so you can read it with your penis, okay? Like you big enough, even if you’re on the smaller size like it’s all good. You just need to know how to find it and where to aim.

Kevin Anthony 34:33
Exactly. It’s all about that aim. Number two, find a partner who thinks your size is perfect. You know, not every vagina is the same size either. Some are deeper, some are shorter, some are wider, some are narrower, right? So maybe if a woman has a really long and deep vagina, maybe she’s got trauma or something where she doesn’t feel a whole lot and she really needs a giant penis to ram her all day long. Okay, if you’re smaller, maybe You’re not the guy for her.

Céline Remy 35:01
But there are plenty of other women out there who don’t require that. Learn how to use a penis like a pro. And I talked about that before because there’s something about the treat presence that you bring inside your penis. If you are fully present with ups when you’re making love, and you are inhabiting every inch of your cock, she feels you and she feels it. Absolutely.

Kevin Anthony 35:30
Yeah, I mean, there’s a million sayings from, you know, over the years, you know, it’s not the size, but the motion of the ocean and all these different things. But basically, what they’re really telling you is, size is not as important as how you use it. Are you good with it? Can you last long? Do you know what angles to hit? You know, do you do using your

Céline Remy 35:54
helps to increase the different thrusting motions?

Kevin Anthony 35:57
Are you present? Are you using the energetics of the penis and it’s something we talk about a lot on this show, right? projecting energy can make your penis feel bigger than it even is. It’s really about learning how to use your penis like a pro.

Céline Remy 36:14
Let’s talk about number four, learn how to use other things like your hands and mouth. So don’t just rely on your penis, if you are smaller, become good at other things.

Kevin Anthony 36:24
Absolutely there. We’ve known people that were absolute masters with their hands. So so with their pain is but masters with their hands, and you know what women were lining up to have them use their hands on them. They literally were. Alright, number five get in shape. So there’s a couple of reasons why that can potentially happen.

Kevin Anthony 36:47
One, the better shape you’re in, the better circulation you gotta have, the more circulation and the better circulation you have, the more blood you can get into your penis, therefore the bigger it will look.

Kevin Anthony 37:00
The other thing is if you’re out of shape, and you’ve got a big giant belly that’s hanging over your penis, your penis might get lost in or maybe look really tiny. Like I mean, if you’ve ever been to a nude beach, you’ve seen at least a few big fat guys walking around and you’re like, Where’s their penis? I can’t see it right? Then you see a skinny little guy walking by he’s got the same size penis and you’re like, Oh, look, there it is right there.

Céline Remy 37:23
Absolutely. Number six groom so it looks beggar again, it’s all about the visuals and just using you know what you can if you won’t change this, it won’t change the size, but it will make it appear bigger,

Kevin Anthony 37:37
right. So you could go get a surgery where they cut the tendon that holds it up. To make your flaccid penis look a little bit longer

Céline Remy 37:44
or at CIM half an inch or you just mow the lawn.

Kevin Anthony 37:48
Trim the bushes a little bit. way easier, cheaper, and less potential for anything to go wrong. Alright, number seven, learn to love your penis exactly how it is and rocket no matter what size it is. So the reality is okay, if you’re super small, maybe you’ve got micropenis or something, it’s something that needs to be done. Otherwise, all you really need to do is do the inner work to love yourself to love your penis for how it is.

Kevin Anthony 38:18
And just rocket. We have known people with small penises that they could walk into a sex party and command the damn room. They don’t have a big penis. Nope. They just had big confidence. They have big confidence. Absolutely. And they walk in swinging that thing left and right. I don’t care what size it is.

Céline Remy 38:39
And number eight, you could potentially use penises extenders. So there are devices that you will devices, little things that you can add to your penis that supposedly will add some length, which it will, it will feel a bit unnatural because diverse sleeves that you put over you are different one of them are slightly different.

Céline Remy 39:01
So it will feel a little bit unnatural. But it’s a possibility because then you’re still using what you’ve got with adding something to it.

Kevin Anthony 39:10
Yeah, so the idea is that it kind of gives it like a skeletal frame sort of back and make a little I mean if you’re really small and you need it great. Otherwise, seriously, love what you got, you know, fall in love with your penis all over again, like you did when you were young and you first discovered it like whoa. And just rocket and we’ll we will leave you with this from the Mayo Clinic.

Kevin Anthony 39:35
Many men believe that increasing the size of their penis will make them a better lover or make them more attractive, but chances are your penis is within the normal size range. Even if your penis is smaller than average, it may not matter to your partner.

Céline Remy 39:50
Amen.

Kevin Anthony 39:51
Absolutely. All right, everybody. There you have it. That is the long and the short of it. You cannot really significantly change the size of your penis. So love what you have and find a woman who also loves what you have and learn how to use it like a pro.

Céline Remy 40:12
And work those muscles to keep it

Kevin Anthony 40:14
all toned and strong. Right, and if you want to learn how to use it like a pro, go check out power mastery calm because that’s where we teach you how to do that. Alright, everybody, that’s all the time we have for this episode, and we will see you next week. We hope you like this episode of the love lab podcast. If you enjoy this show, subscribe. leave us a review and share it with your friends.

Céline Remy 40:41
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Kevin Anthony 40:55
Thanks for listening

Céline Remy 40:56
and remember you are amazing