Cervical Orgasms, What Are They And How To Have One

Kevin Anthony 0:12
Welcome to the Love Lab Podcast, a safe place to get real about sex. Whether you’re a man, woman single or couple, this is the show for you. Because well, sex matters. We are your hosts Kevin Anthony and Céline Remy.

Kevin Anthony 0:28
Welcome back to the love lab podcast and this is episode 77. And it’s “Cervical orgasms, what are they and how to have one.”

Céline Remy 0:39
Or more.

Kevin Anthony 0:39
Or more?

Céline Remy 0:40
Because if you’ve been listening to the love lab, we are on our orgasm series. we tackled multiple orgasms last week. And so why not apply that to cervical orgasms as well?

Kevin Anthony 0:52
Yeah. I personally love having cervical orgasms.

Céline Remy 0:58
Oh really, Kevin, do explain, how does that work for you?

Kevin Anthony 1:02
For this is nothing better than when my cervix is stimulated.

Céline Remy 1:08
I think we need to give you a little anatomy lesson here for you, my dear.

Kevin Anthony 1:14
We will be getting to that shortly.

Céline Remy 1:17
All right, so I’m super excited to bring this subject into the air because there’s still a lot of debate around cervical orgasms. Are they real? Do they exist? Is it all in your head? And I think ultimately, it doesn’t fully matter. There’s been enough proof enough scientific things that have shown that different areas of the brain get lit up that there are different nerves and we’ll go all in-depth for that to show that there is something happening and cervical orgasms can happen.

Céline Remy 1:47
But because orgasms do happen in the head, then if you don’t believe in them, if you’re not open to them, or if you don’t let your head get in there and make that happen between your brain then it’s not going to happen. So you also play a role in it.

Kevin Anthony 2:00
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Céline Remy 2:05
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Kevin Anthony 2:39
Alright, so let’s dive into cervical orgasm.

Céline Remy 2:45
So, I’d say that cervical orgasms are definitely less popular than clitoral orgasms. Most people most women are wired a certain way and they’ve figured out how to use that clit and 70 to 80% of women, that’s what they need. And that’s the only way that they reach orgasms. Hey, let’s celebrate that they’re reaching an orgasm. For sure. That’s awesome. That’s

Kevin Anthony 3:08
a good thing.

Céline Remy 3:08
But we got to remember that, you know, the more you do the same thing over and over, the more it creates that pattern. And sometimes I think he can really limit yourself and your ability to experience different sensations in your body.

Kevin Anthony 3:22
Yeah, and you know, I mean, the clearest is external. Part of it is anyway. And it’s very obvious why most women learn that first, right, you’re experimenting, you’re like in the shower with the showerhead one, you’re like, oh, if I put it right, you know. So it’s pretty obvious why women figure that out first. And you know, the cervix, it’s internal. You can’t see it. It’s deeper, it’s maybe a little bit more elusive. And so if you haven’t taken the time to really explore all of these things, you might have missed it.

Céline Remy 3:54
Absolutely. And I think that sometimes two people get attached to that quick explosion. It’s somewhat easier to get a clitoral orgasm than it is to reach a cervical orgasm there are more elements that need to be put into place and because it is deeper because it is just something I think it takes a little bit longer to awaken. It’s different sensations.

Céline Remy 4:15
I kind of see the clitoral orgasm as a firework that’s really how I see this explosive it’s quick it’s a firework in its rapid while different types of orgasms are definitely like take longer. I don’t yet have the name of what they could be like but the definitely like explode a lot too but I think it’s not as quick to trigger.

Kevin Anthony 4:41
Some people have described the cervical orgasm more like rolling hills. So like the analogy one of the analogies I read in an article preparing for this was that a clitoral orgasm is like you’re climbing up the mountain then you have this big, you know, explosion, where they say the cervical is a little bit more like, up and down a bunch of rolling hill.

Céline Remy 5:08
That was interesting. So I’d say from my personal experience because I do own a cervix.

Kevin Anthony 5:15
Lucky you.

Céline Remy 5:16
At your cervix here, my dear.

Céline Remy 5:20
Okay. I have less control over my cervical orgasms. So it is a deeper sensation. And it’s not like that I’m so happy when I’m having sex and experiencing it. So it’s a little hard to break it down and put it into words for your listeners. But what I do see happening that’s different is the, it’s not just located to the cervix, unlike the clip where it’s kind of like happening in your clip where it is.

Céline Remy 5:48
It starts from deep and it spreads throughout your whole body and can literally be from head to toe, like hairs to toe wherever. And there’s also something Do you know when I get into the rolling orgasms with waves. And it’s like, and it takes me by surprise sometimes takes us by surprise. These are more of the cervical orgasms.

Céline Remy 6:11
Whereas like, I don’t have as much control over them more like once they start going as like, whoo, whoo. And there’s more and kind of goes easier into the multiple because of how it functions.

Kevin Anthony 6:23
Yeah. And you know, I would say to you made a comment at the very beginning of the show about how some people maybe don’t really believe that they exist, and maybe there isn’t that much research. But the reality is, you can feel your own body.

Céline Remy 6:38
Yes.

Kevin Anthony 6:39
And you can feel the difference between when orgasm comes from your clitoris and when it comes from your G spot and when it comes from your cervix. Absolutely. And so that’s really that’s all the proof we need. Like you can feel it like you like Whoa, that was totally different.

Céline Remy 6:55
Yeah, but some women are not able to feel like they’ve desensitized themselves or they hold a lot of trauma within their vagina and then it’s not sensitive or it’s like really tight or painful. And I’m going to say also word of caution with the cervix is that the cervix can be really sensitive, and it’s not liking to be poked.

Kevin Anthony 7:16
And this is a good point. Maybe we should explain a little bit of the anatomy since we kind of made that joke in the beginning about, you know, me having a cervix, which obviously I don’t because men do not have cervixes.

Céline Remy 7:27
Yes. So the cervix basically is the lower portion of the uterus, and it’s tubular in shape. the cervix has three nerves that irrigate so that’s really phenomenal when you think about it because the clitoris really has one nerve and you get a lot of sensations from that nerve being stimulated and from having a clitoral stimulation. But think about it.

Your cervix has three nerves that irrigate it. The vagus, the hypogastric and the pelvic nerves. That means there’s a potential for much deeper sensations. The vagus nerves too in there was like all the way like from the pelvis all the way up to the head, like through the spine. Like there’s really something kind of special about that nerve too.

Kevin Anthony 8:10
Yeah, and this is a so when people say full-body orgasms, this is kind of where that comes from because you’ve got all these nerves. And then there, they’re going literally from the genitals all the way up to your head. And so if you trigger it an intense orgasm, through cervical stimulation, yeah, you could feel that throughout your entire body. Yeah.

Céline Remy 8:32
And so how do you reach your cervix by yourself, it’s a little bit tricky depending on where you are in your cycle because your cervix will move higher and lower. We’ll talk again more about that later in the show. But I think you’ll find that the easiest way is literally to squat down and sometimes is to press down on your pubic bone. On your mons here, where your pubic hair is, if you still have pubic hair and kind of press a little bit and then with the other hand as you’re squatting in search your longer finger possible and go up towards your belly basically.

Céline Remy 9:08
And you will find a little, I mean, it’s it’s not a door, right? The way that it really feels it’s a little bomb. And depending on when you are in your cycle, it’s ever going to feel very soft and open like your lips. If you bring your finger now to your lips and just touch your lips gently apart. That’s a soft cervix, that’s the cervix that is fertile and open as like, ready for spermatozoid to go in, and then the arrow meets the egg and creates a baby. When it’s not fertile. And you touch your cervix. It’s like the tip of your nose. There is a hardness to it.

Céline Remy 9:49
And at the same time, it’s still somewhat soft, but it’s different between the tip of your nose and your mouth. And this is like really how you get to know your cervix and you will see that depending on the position, the cervix will go higher or lower depending on the excitement. Because when there’s the blood flow that comes into the vagina and the ligaments pull things, and there’s extra blood flow, I mean, everything like expands right, and it moves and shifts. And so you will find that your cervix will change the location and that some positions will be more comfortable than ever in terms of the lovemaking.

Kevin Anthony 10:26
Yeah, and it’s important to point out that its position will change throughout your cycle. Yes, right. So where you are in your cycle will determine how high or low it is. And so you know, I find that when we’re making love and now granted there are certain positions will give one of those in the tips later on. But I find that at certain times of your cycle, I can definitely feel like I’m bumping up against it and other times not so much. So yes, position matters, but also the time of your cycle matters because you are internally changing.

Céline Remy 10:59
Absolutely. I’m so curious as a guy, how do you feel it with your penis? Like how does it feel? How do you know you’re touching my cervix?

Kevin Anthony 11:09
Well, I would describe it as a literally like a bottoming out. Right? Like, so. When you’re not touching the cervix. The tip of your penis isn’t touching really anything like yes, you can feel the vagina sort of wrapping around your whole penis, but you’re not like hitting the wall so to speak. And when you are touching the surface, you can very clearly feel the tip of your penis touching something.

Kevin Anthony 11:41
And like you described how the cervix feels different at different points of your cycle or different points of arousal. You can actually feel that difference with your penis too because sometimes, you’ll hit it and you know, you’re touching something, but it’s like the tip of your penis touching a pillow.

Céline Remy 12:04
It looks soft and kind of cushiony.

Kevin Anthony 12:09
So cool. And other times you’ll hit it and it’ll be quite hard actually. And in certain positions, if it happens to be quite hard, it can be slightly painful on your penis. Because it’s like, it’s like hitting your penis into a wall. You know, it’s like, boom, boom.

Céline Remy 12:29
This is fucking amazing. Oh, the listeners. And for me, I’m like, I don’t have a penis, man. I’m like, this is so cool. Like, you actually get to know and feel your partner’s body. And this is like super useful information too. Because when the service is hard, usually it’s not welcoming a lot of data. It needs a little bit more gentle. And when it’s more soft and open, it can take much more pounding or pressure or attention. Yeah,

Kevin Anthony 12:54
so that’s important for the guys to know because, first of all, if you have a really large penis You’re most likely going to be touching it almost no matter what, no matter what state of excitement no matter what time of the month it is. But you should be able to tell when you hit it. Is it hard or is it soft? And you know, whether you’re whether you have a large penis or not, if you’re feeling the cervix, and it feels hard, well, that’s a real sign that she needs more stimulation, like don’t just start pounding and don’t say, hey, let’s get into this position in life, you know.

Kevin Anthony 13:31
So, that’s a sign that take a little bit more time and goes a little bit slower. You should as the lovemaking progresses, start to feel it soften. And if you’re still hitting it, but you’re like, ooh, feels, it feels kind of soft now feels a little bit more open than it did before. Now maybe you can start progressing to a little bit more.

Céline Remy 13:52
Oh, I love that vigorous. So before we get into more of our tips, I wanted to read the study from the Journal of sex medicine. was published a few years ago and what they found and by the way here, and I’m counting on you to like, explain it. I’m going to read this and then we’ll break it down. They found that vaginal, clitoral and cervical regions of activation were differentiable consistent with innovation by different nerves and different behavioral correlates.

Kevin Anthony 14:19
Oh, you gotta love science. They love to overcomplicate everything. All they’re saying here is that the different points that are stimulated, which they’re calling regions of activation, or differentiable, which means you could just tell the difference between which region was being stimulated in which region wasn’t

Céline Remy 14:36
Yeah, and now the difference is in the brain, by the way, I just took one sentence of that they took MRI, right. They were money into reactivity. Exactly.

Kevin Anthony 14:46
And they were able to see which parts of the brain light up when they stimulate which region. Yes. And so one of the things that they determined was that different nerves are actually being stimulated. We’re talking about you know, you can have a clitoral orgasm versus a G spot orgasm versus a cervical orgasm, that there are literally different nerves being stimulated, that are triggering different parts of the brain.

Céline Remy 15:12
And at the same time because in close proximity, they still kind of work together. It’s not like separate. It’s a network, right? And so it’s spongy tissues, and it’s nerves. And yes, you might be stimulating the tip of your clutters. But you know, the clitoris has the legs and it in nerves all the way deep down and it’s connected to your G spot, and the G spot and that region, the interior region, the A-spot is connected to your cervical spine, so it’s kind of like all mingled into one.

Céline Remy 15:42
So, yes, that’s a good reminder to be like, hey, because some people are saying now that it’s all the same. It all starts from the same place. And I’m like, Well, yes and no, maybe somewhere in the middle.

Kevin Anthony 15:54
You know, it’s one thing to say, well, it all kind of starts in the same place. I mean, I could see how different pending on what they exactly mean by that, you could say that. But what still amazes me is that here it is 2020. And people still say, G spot orgasms don’t exist and cervical orgasms don’t exist. I mean, there’s enough science now to show there are different nerves connected to different spots that can trigger different sensations. It’s not even up for debate anymore, honestly.

Céline Remy 16:24
Yeah. And enough women have come forward to talk about their experiences. And so while we’re talking about that, let’s just look at let’s have one clear understanding because, for most women, the cervix goes very much under-stimulated and it’s also often very sensitive to touch. the cervix, as we said earlier does not like to be poked, it has to be coaxed into being approached and, you know, played with

Kevin Anthony 16:49
just like a woman

Céline Remy 16:50
Exactly. And offers the oftentimes the first sensation in the pill in the cervix is a pain or discomfort. That’s a sign by the way that you’re not ready meaning you need more razzles more stimulation that this is just not enough time for the cervix or that the cervix is holding trauma. And I’m never a big like proponent if it feels discomfort, like painful, uncomfortable, you stop, you breathe, you relax, you never push through. Because a lot of women just go like, well, it’s a very fine line. And I can speak about that for myself too.

Céline Remy 17:27
Because you might have an like, a certain degree of pleasure. And there’s also pain and you kind of thinking are well, but this feels still so good. Yet there’s the pain. So it’s very important to be like, Okay, how can I stay in the zone where there’s more pleasure than there is pain? How can we get maybe more gradually into awakening that part of the body? So if you’re are experiencing pain, that means you’re not aroused enough, okay? And don’t judge yourself if it takes you 20 minutes or 40 minutes. That’s absolutely normal.

Céline Remy 18:02
Okay, and who knows, maybe you had a stressful day, maybe your body needs a little bit more time. You know, it’s easier when you’re on vacation when you relax and when you had a full day of work, right. And sometimes also the pain can come from old sexual trauma of things that have happened, you know, even just sometimes with childbirth, that was traumatic, traumatizing, all of these can still have the memory right in that area.

Céline Remy 18:30
So addressing not only the physical but the emotional underlying causes as well just to allow that piece, that place of the body to start to open up and relax. And know also that the cervix can hold a lot of tension, and it takes time to awaken it and you need to be turned on and not pressured. So you can approach it in Mike I’m getting a cervical orgasm today and this is this. Because we’re about to give you the tips and it’s like Céline and Kevin said these steps of a lesson it’s happened this way, right? No,

Kevin Anthony 19:05
Well, no pressure, you know, what we always say to be right, is that you shouldn’t have any expectations or any end goal. So anytime you embark on lovemaking, the end goal isn’t to have it isn’t to have a cervical orgasm. But it also isn’t to have really any orgasm. Because the second you put an expectation on it, like, I’m going to have an orgasm during this session, you’ve just reduced the chances that you’re actually going to have an orgasm cuz you’re putting stress and pressure on yourself.

Kevin Anthony 19:32
So I gotta, I gotta do this, I gotta do that, or I gotta get there. I only have a certain amount of time to get there or whatever it is. So, you know, I say, with clitoral orgasms, there’s a high likelihood that you’ll get there with the other types of orgasms, maybe not. So don’t, don’t create any expectations. create an environment that’s conducive to potentially having one and then if you do your legs

Céline Remy 20:03
And the more you do that, the more often you’ll be able to repeat that and the more often you’ll be able to have them. Mm-hmm. Absolutely. And I don’t expect a cervical orgasm every time like sometimes the easier to get to have the other times and it’s hard. It’s fun when it happens, and it’s just as fun when it doesn’t happen. That’s all part of the journey. Mm-hmm.

Kevin Anthony 20:24
Alright, so we’ve got some tips to help you potentially have them. All right, so we have five tips to have amazing cervical orgasms,

Céline Remy 20:34
right. So number one, to have a cervical orgasm. You actually need to touch stimulate your cervix. Whoo-hoo, new right. Well, here’s the thing, like you can have a cervical orgasm just by touching your clit like it has to have stimulation. And before you go straight to the cervix, like we talked about, you need to stimulate all the hot spots within the vagina.

Céline Remy 20:59
Also know as your G spot you’re a spot which is located on the deep interior of your vagina on the belly side. So up and up towards the belly when you go in, you need to activity into a vagina because that will ensure that your cervix is adequately aroused and pleasured reviled oversensitivity.

Kevin Anthony 21:20
Yeah, so the recommendation is to start from the outside in or yet start from the outside. It could be it could literally just be massaging the outer Lamia, you know and starting to get that in gorged with mud and get the the excitement flowing. Go to the glitter as you can go to the G spot, work your way deeper into the A-spot like start to build from the outside in.

Céline Remy 21:47
And I love that it’s awakening the erectile tissues above the roof of the vagina. It’s actually a crucial, crucial first step. Now, as a guy Kevin, tell us more about stimulating the cervix for your partner with your penis. What’s the best position?

Kevin Anthony 22:08
Well, Doggy style is generally the best position. And actually, when researching this I had some ideas in my head and I was like well let me see if what other people say they have any other recommendations You know? And literally it was like doggy style hands down. But actually I would also add missionary with your legs like Way up high. Yes. And like kind of almost by your head is also another good one.

Céline Remy 22:38
That is I’m so glad you say that Kevin because when our hands-on with women and we do full Yoni massage and try to explore, and they’re laying on their back and some between their legs and then massaging the inside of their vagina. If I need to go to the cervix, I actually have them place their feet or the ankle over my shoulders. So that’s exactly what you’re talking about because my fingers are not that long.

Céline Remy 23:05
And it’s hard sometimes to go reach that cervix and that’s the way that I get to reach it. So if you are doing a digital stimulation, you want to try to reach it for you women, like have her lift her legs and price her ankles over your shoulders or feet, like depending how it is or prop maybe even you can even try to put a pillow underneath the underneath her butts to lift it up a little bit. But that would be the most the easiest way. I know that

Kevin Anthony 23:34
In doggy style, most of the time. You’re like, Oh, yeah, and I can tell but every time I put your legs over your head, you’re like, whoa, whoa. It’s like a sure thing.

Céline Remy 23:48
But I think it might also have to do with the position with the direction of your penis because you point up and so that’s easier for that. If a penis points to aside or differences It might be a different position because I had a lover in the past who was pointing differently and actually the way he was he was bigger and pointing to a side and what we did we did basically a side position, little spoon big spoon with me being the liberal spoon and he would be behind me entering me and that’s how I modified the dog the psychos dog, he was too much he was too big for me.

Céline Remy 24:27
And so that allowed having that penetration that was deeper and with his angle that was hitting it. So you got to think about the logistics of how the shape of your genitalia has worked together.

Kevin Anthony 24:43
Yeah, so you might have to try a few different things, be a little creative.

Céline Remy 24:48
And you know, he’s fun anyway. Once you touch your cervix, you will know so that’s tip number two is you got to know your cervix. So as a woman, you need to know what it feels like a You got to explore it for yourself. Like I said earlier it changes positions right during your cycle. It’s low and firm like your nose during the bleeding and after ovulation but when you are fertile it comes really high and soft.

Céline Remy 25:16
And remember that pillowy description Kevin gave us it’s kind of like, ready it’s soft it’s appealing calm inside me This is the whole thing is happening. You know, it’s like, designed to make babies and it’s working very well. So at the height of ovulation, the cervix os which is the name for the cervix hole, the little hole in the middle, right, because it’s kind of like a donut. If you think of it like a really small doughnut. It’s soft, open and wet.

Céline Remy 25:46
And you need to know your cervix to know what’s going on and you have to talk to you have to take the time to explore yourself. I don’t know if you remember in one of the episodes Kevin said I know every inch of my penis and Unlike most women don’t know anything about their vaginas the inside and you have to go and explore you have to feel the ridges that the folds the weird ways that it is inside a high takes to touch your cervix. What does it feel like when you reach your cervix? If your fingers are too short, if you can’t find a position, get ones, like a crystal wand or something, you know, to help you reach that location.

Céline Remy 26:25
And like I said, the best way is to squat until you kind of feel that war. One more little anatomy lesson here. The cervix is basically the backdoor, right? You know, when women are afraid Am I going to lose a tampon? Or if I put a jade egg inside my vagina? I’m gonna lose it. I’m like, No, you don’t lose it because that’s the cervix. the cervix is the door to the uterus, but that’s kind of what closes that. The Vagina here. So that’s that wall that you’re looking for if it makes sense.

Céline Remy 26:57
Yes, yeah, you want to be familiar with its shape and texture. And it’s I know it’s silly. But I mean, if you don’t know yourself, you can’t teach somebody else what you like how you like to be stimulated and you can’t guide them. So it’s actually very crucial.

Kevin Anthony 27:11
Yeah, I’ve always been amazed. And I’ve said this on the show multiple times, how many women don’t really even know how their body works or what it’s like, like, you know, there’s a practice you do in workshops, sometimes, which you know, other people do also, which is having women look at their vaginas in a mirror. And, you know, here we are, again, 2020. This is still groundbreaking for so many women, like totally groundbreaking. So it’s a great exercise to do if you’ve never done it, do it. And the point is, is like, wow, how could you be an adult and have never done that never even looked at yourself,

Céline Remy 27:49
and if you haven’t done that yet. Make sure you sign up for the Sex Vault because I have a meditation for women a deep pleasure and radiance meditation that will walk you through Looking at your vagina and getting to know yourself so that would be a good way to start.

Kevin Anthony 28:05
Yeah, that’s it CelineRemy.comand there’s a link in the comments every episodes. do that but yeah, sign up, get on that list, you’ll get more cool stuff from us and you’ll get that meditation.

Céline Remy 28:16
So number free, find and explore the pleasure sensations in your cervix. Okay, so let’s talk about what cervix is like the cervix needs is more receptive to a slow rhythmic touch. So like I said earlier, hard and fast tends to shut it down unless, unless you are open soft usually like super aroused, usually super fertile, and then it can take more because it’s softer, but otherwise it likes slow and rhythmic. Most people’s sex tends to be more like in and out like this which is not the way the body likes.

Kevin Anthony 29:00
In and Out has its place. But it’s only one type in a toolbox full of different times. Unfortunately, if you learned how to have sex from watching porn, that’s the only type you see. Just full-on like, boom, boom, real fast, hard. If you really want to be a master at making love, you have to vary the speed, the depth, the angle, sometimes there’s stillness. Sometimes it’s really fast, sometimes it’s really slow and sometimes it’s pounding.

Kevin Anthony 29:35
Sometimes it’s soft and gentle like you really got to, you’ve got to learn to vary that up. And as a guy, you’ve got to learn not only to vary it but to vary it based on where she’s at. And that’s a master skill, paying attention to where she’s at and what she wants at that moment. Now, as a woman, don’t be afraid to say what you want if you’re like, hey, slow down, because what I really want Right now is which is really slow and gentle.

Kevin Anthony 30:02
Don’t be afraid to say that just say it in an irresistible way. But as a guy also she might not say it. So you have to pay attention like what’s the expression on her face as you’re pounding your Is it like, oh, I’m barely holding on or is it like

Céline Remy 30:18
yeah, more right unless you grabbing your hips and pulling you forward into her or she like pushing you away from her body. These are slight differences. You know are her hands pulling you or pushing you? Exactly. So okay, so now we know the average speed of lovemaking probably we need to be slowed down greatly in order for the cervix to enjoy that stimulation. And I want to give you a few stimulations that would be digital stimulation,  self-stimulation or something you can do on a woman.

Céline Remy 30:53
What I like motions, I experimenting like a windshield wiper. So it’s like left, right? And left, right like this or small little circles, circles feel really, really good, slow and steady. You can do this back and forth motion. But it’s about bringing energy into the cervix, bringing life into it and seeing how it’s responding. You caressing it slowly and being like, okay, stretch up and jam tall so that it doesn’t have to like shield itself and be like, no, don’t touch me. We’ve all had sex, where the lover went too fast, too quick, too deep and it hurt and it stopped the flow.

Céline Remy 31:36
And I’m sure every guy has experienced that at some point. You have touched the wrong spot too quickly, and you feel pretty bad about hurting her and she doesn’t feel good either. So it’s really important to slow things down. Absolutely. All right, number four. Tip number four. Well, since I’m on the role, I guess I’ll take it Oh, new math and allow you fro to release tension. There’s actually a direct connection between your throat and your cervix via that vagus nerve.

Céline Remy 32:09
Remember the nerve that innervates, the cervix that we talked at the beginning one of them right is the vagus nerve. So it’s been backed up by science, ancient tantric tags and Taoist practices. They talk about that too. So it’s, it’s been around for a really long time. So you want to allow deep guttural sounds to come out and open your mouth wide because there really is when you open your mouth, your genitals the vagina opens as well. And it works for guys too. I know you don’t have a vagina, but when you open your mouth like I don’t know, it opens up the sexual energy.

Kevin Anthony 32:45
Well, what it does is especially Okay, so if you’re a guy and you haven’t learned how to move that energy through your body like you don’t, you don’t have a practice per se, to intentionally move that body through or that energy through getting through the body. Simply opening your mouth and allowing yourself to make sounds will move that energy. And that’s actually one of the ways that you can learn to move the energy is by opening your mouth and making some sounds.

Kevin Anthony 33:12
So as a guy, let’s say you are trying to move some of the energy through your body so that you can delay ejaculation. Well, one of the ways to do that is to allow sound to come out. Just allow that sound to come out. I try not to sound like a cheesy porn movie. But it’s okay also you a lot of people are really afraid to make sounds very exact, which is kind of I mean, I nobody wants to sound weird or look strange or whatever, but it’s part of it.

Céline Remy 33:45
I haven’t you watch people having orgasms. There’s we all look a little weird in that

Kevin Anthony 33:50
and super fucking hot and they’re all making a sound to exactly so yeah, that that’s definitely a tool that you can use as a guide to help Move that energy through. Mm-hmm.

Céline Remy 34:01
And I find it hard when you make sounds, takes me to the next level. I just got super turned on right now. That’s the end of the show for that last tip, and then I think I gotta go get busy with you. All right, let me tell you about our number five, rotate your hips slowly and be patient. So remember how the cervix doesn’t like so much the poking. So when you start to move and rotate your hips, you create a movement here and that’s whatever you have inside if it’s a penis or dildo will start to do circular motion and that stimulation if it’s deep enough, so that’s a really good way to use your hips into small circles.

Céline Remy 34:46
And it also gives the body time to build sensations and excitement and I know that it feels really good to stretch the body and allow it to make any adjustments that it needs and then you stay in that flow. A final word of caution is during pregnancy, deep stimulation of the cervix may not be the best. So you might avoid the really deeper one.

Céline Remy 35:15
Unless maybe you’re are trying to give birth very soon and so you can do really deep cervical stimulation and nipple stimulation and get that cervix to contract and then get that baby out. But otherwise, you know, don’t rush it. Don’t give up, explore and have fun with cervical orgasms.

Kevin Anthony 35:36
Yeah, and I would add on that number five tip you know, guys, you can move your hips too. It’s not just the woman, as you said that the resting straightforward or she’s moving her hips. Yes, that works but you can move your hips to right and you know if you move your hips to your right to tip your penis goes to the left. It’s like driving in reverse. It’s the opposite on the wheel. You

Céline Remy 35:59
love this? By the way, we teach you all of that in our courses and power and mastery in sexual mastery. So yeah, that’s just to give you a little teaser of what’s possible. Hopefully, we ignited your curiosity. Hope hopefully we gave you some good how-tos, and inspired you to give cervical orgasm a try?

Kevin Anthony 36:19
Yeah. And if you’ve never had one, now you have your mission. But don’t send any expectations. All right, everybody. That’s all the time we have for this episode. And we will see you next week. We hope you liked this episode of the love lab podcast. If you enjoyed this show, leave a comment and share it with your friends.

Céline Remy 36:43
And if you want more, we have an entire digital library with the best sex tips and Relationship Advice at Celine Remy. com. That’s kevinanthonycoaching.com So join us in the sex vault to continue this adventure.

Kevin Anthony 37:00
Thanks for listening

Céline Remy 37:01
and remember, you’re amazing.